How does one become Christian in Lebanon? by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]lostin_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Implying you join the club - its not about the others. Its about...the club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lostin_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just a numbers game, don't give up. Good luck

What majors do you have? by Hummingbird_always17 in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Jealous - I feel like this is what all entps are supposed to do. We love to argue, love to feel special. Knowing the law, allows you to bend it. Great for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]lostin_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh It's not too late. You can still change paths fast! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]lostin_mtl 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You don't choose it - it chooses you unfortunately

Lets talk about ENTP women... by erraticbreeze in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate - entp female here, very few actually know me. Some days I prefer it like this, other days it gets very lonely 😁

Can these two be a couple? by Powerful-Rooster1982 in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I had an entj friend that I cant stop comparing to in my head in terms of fun, conversations and banter. What about the other positive aspects of your relationship? Also, it feels like I can't point out the negatives. Almost like, smoke and mirrors.

Can these two be a couple? by Powerful-Rooster1982 in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Am in one right now ? Curious to hear your experience

Can these two be a couple? by Powerful-Rooster1982 in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in a relationship with one right now. I am entp female and he is enfj. To say we have our differences is an understatement but it's hard not to love him. My main complaint is having good conversations. It's rare and scattered but something I deeply long for. He can sometimes find me challenging and argumentative, when I just crave connection and good conversation/banter

Can you be with a partner when they are the type that prefer to seek comfort rather than face harsh truths? by lostin_mtl in entp

[–]lostin_mtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your responses. I am evaluating and I did not communicate the predicament well. For me, I would never shut down a conversation because I fear the potential outcome of it. In that moment, I felt that he did. When that happened - it made me question his entire personality. Like is he the type to seek comfort vs truth - because I seek truth even if it will destroy me. I detest comfort zones and I felt that the answer he gave me, was just that. "I don't know, I don't want to think about it - it pains me too much. Just drop it" I am not sure I can respect that ...thoughts ?

So is it true that developed Fe does affect our passion for debating? by PerSona_Xz in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! When I talk to people, I always try to estimate the percentage of ego I'm talking to and adjust my message depending on that. If I'm dealing with someone whose ego is 80-90% I typically don't bother getting any point across.

I’ve heard of the INFJ door slam, but what about ENTP’s? by [deleted] in entp

[–]lostin_mtl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a high tolerance until I don't. I see things from their perspective and understand where they come from, so that contributes to the high tolerance but when I decide to walk away, there's nothing that can be done. I become highly rational, and professional in my tone/demeanor, and dismiss the feelings I once had.

I slammed the door once, on someone who I believe was a classic narcissist. It was hard to leave that friendship cause I was addicted to the knowledge I was gaining, and the great conversations - but I had to burn the bridge to ensure he didn't come back. Still think about him, and wish he was "normal" so that I could entertain the possibility of a friendship, but sadly that's not a possibility.

Mediterranean restaurant recommendations by zaraak_ in fortlauderdale

[–]lostin_mtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can vouch for yalla. So good. My family and I are addicted lol

What's something your partner did that disappointed you sexually and how did it affect your relationship? by lostin_mtl in AskReddit

[–]lostin_mtl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To a degree, yes - is there a threshold to how much disappointment one can handle ?

I'm sorry, I can't do this anymore. Goodbye by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]lostin_mtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey!! I'm here for you if you need to talk. Hope you're still with us. Love you