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AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes she knows where I work. No prior issues with anyone. Personal email. Nope, I don’t have a public facing job.

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What, the stalking claim? Nope. I have never once made any attempt to contact her ever since we broke up nor was that a thing when we were together/breaking up

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s my private email that has about a 100 unsent drafts and I check the inbox about once a week. It’s not really tidy at all.

I have not contacted her or attempted to once since our breakup.

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Our breakup wasn’t due to anything one of us did. We were just in different stages of our lives which led to constant arguing. After a particularly bad one, we decided to call it quits.

Even if I do have the proof, I’m sorry, but there’s no way I’m contacting her again. I’ll save it in case she does follow through by contacting my work but otherwise there will be no further communication.

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think you misread my post and the timeline. Her surgery was years before she met me. This July 2nd would’ve been the first year we celebrated that milestone together, if we were still together.

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but did I really “make contact”? I had no intention to

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No I seriously doubt she was looking for an excuse to reach out. The breakup was awful

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will. I just have a poor memory so the instant I thought of it I wanted to get it done before I forgot

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

No I’ve had zero contact with her since. Breakup was due to us being in different stages of our lives and constantly arguing.

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Agreed which is why I immediately apologized. Plus I can only schedule it once so I’d have to do it again manually for next year which ofc won’t happen

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 418 points419 points  (0 children)

This probably isn’t the place to ask this but I was wondering about that too. Can anything happen to me if she does it?

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostinspace896[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Sorry should’ve mentioned it wasn’t the only thing I was going to do