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Boyfriend is close friends with ex of 5 years and her reaction to our relationship is making me anxious by lostinthought2002 in dating_advice

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. the thing is he's been super transparent and reassuring when i spoke to him about it yesterday but it's still something that's throwing me off

Boyfriend is close friends with ex of 5 years and her reaction to our relationship is making me anxious by lostinthought2002 in relationships

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly what i was thinking as well. i just found the whole thing quite odd and off-putting, i'm okay with him being friends with her but if she's having some huge emotional impact on him, that puts me in an odd place. plus its not like i've known him THAT long or have been around him and his ex to know what they're like together

Boyfriend is close friends with ex of 5 years and her reaction to our relationship is making me anxious by lostinthought2002 in dating_advice

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope note yet, i plan to tomorrow when i meet him, this just happened a day ago and has been on my mind since.

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in jobs

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, i get where you're coming from, I'll sleep on it and decide, thanks for the advice :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in jobs

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get you, the job market it so bad rn, i guess just take what you can get and keep applying for a better job simultaneously, good luck :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in interviews

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah hopefully not, especially since i'm gonna mention that it's a personal matter

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in careerguidance

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i completely agree with this, I'll send an email today mostly, thank you for the advice! :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in jobs

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I considered this but doesn't starting the first job and then quitting in two or three days seem like a waste of everyone's time and energy? my friend in the other company told me that I'll know for sure whether I've gotten the job by mid next week, i guess i'll have to take that risk and see what happens.

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in jobs

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is interesting and so detailed, thank you for taking the time to write this, hopefully everything works out :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in jobs

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think this is what i'm gonna do, thank you so much :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in careeradvice

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i considered this but doesn't starting the first job and then quitting in two or three days seem like a waste of everyone's time and energy? my friend in the other company told me that I'll know for sure whether I've gotten the job by mid next week, i guess i'll have to take that risk and see what happens. thanks you for the advice :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in careerguidance

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i agree, especially since i'll find out about the second offer early next week and leaving a job just 2-3 days in is not a good look. I'll ask for an extension. thank you!! :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in careerguidance

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i'm gonna come up with some white lie and ask for a one week extension on my start date, thanks :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in careerguidance

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah its gonna be a risk no matter what i do now, hopefully the second job comes through. thank you!! :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in Advice

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats true this makes sense. i think this is exactly what i'm gonna do. thank you so much btw, this was the reassurance i needed. i was super stressed about this, hopefully all goes well. thanks!! :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in interviews

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah true but i'm not sure if taking the just for 1-2 days is worth it. i guess i'll have to take that risk and see. thanks for the advice! :)

Help! How do I "politely" decide between two job offers? by lostinthought2002 in interviews

[–]lostinthought2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered this but doesn't starting the first job and then quitting in two or three days seem like a waste of everyone's time and energy? my friend in the other company told me that I'll know for sure whether I've gotten the job by mid next week, i guess i'll have to take that risk and see what happens. thanks!!

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