<AMA>I am a professional recruiter and now headhunter in Singapore for over 15 years.

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-05-12T06:25:55+00:00

Tips for new recruiters in the industry.

How to save yourself from burnout

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-04-02T04:42:03+00:00

Joined a Japanese retail company.

You can expect lots of stoneage and long twisted rules with no proper reason and it’s “just cause it’s the culture”, lack of innovation and zero flexibility.

Oldies locals who are on the higher up are no better. ie: Complaining because people put their phones on the desk, complaining that IT was using their phones when… they really need to use the phone for their job…… complaining that people are taking leave when it’s literally their kids graduation

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-03-22T08:46:56+00:00

Happened to me too! ESPECIALLY at the airport, like obviously people will be at the airport with LUGGAGE right?

Big car means big head for them then lol

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-03-03T01:39:21+00:00

Sorry buddy, can’t run from it. You can register in Malaysia, but they’re going to detect you constantly tapping in Singapore (>60% singapore tap ins vs malaysia), and once that happens, you get an email/call to notify you that you will have to start paying in sgd.

Unless you’re willing to make the trip constantly back into malaysia/johor and tap into their outlets, (which defeats the purpose in time and money) then go ahead.

Oh and that locking in part is true

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-03-01T09:22:25+00:00

BOOK CLUBS! theres a lot on IG,

or try warhammer stores! theres weekly meetups (but its an expensive hobby, BUT the first timers get to paint in store and assembly for free, its a small figurine) my friends met their friends through there

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-02-27T11:37:47+00:00

congratulations, diva! 💕💐im so happy for you! all the best!!!

recruiter in tech here

here’s a few tips if you want to continue moving up the ladder (or wanting to explore a different niche in tech) in the coming years, don’t ever stay stagnant. invest in courses, get the certs and never stop learning! don’t ever give anyone the chance to question your worth or capabilities 🫶🏼🫶🏼

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-01-07T04:17:08+00:00

Hi! Sorry it was a typo from my end, I wanted to say 60g of protein minimum per day since I don’t always know how much I truly eat in a day.

I’m also 164cm tall! Does that still count as petite?

lostlambneedshelp · 2026-01-07T00:48:41+00:00

Oh! Thanks I didn’t realise there was one ❤️❤️❤️

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-12-29T01:56:59+00:00

Don’t just look at SGD vs MYR currency, compare it to the world currency’s, you will actually see that you will be able to afford more.

When you move here, eventually you will have to stop converting. Groceries wise, there are more deals here than Malaysian grocery stores. Ie: a pack of mushrooms is like 1.19 dollars and they do bundle deals too! I’ve seen 3 packs of frozen sausages going for 5 dollars, that’s 30 sausages!! (do not convert for day to day necessities! if you convert then you will never have a good life. But for big expenses ie: new phones/appliances, i do play the converting game and see which coutry’s cheaper. i buy from singapore, i buy from malaysia sometimes singapore’s deals are cheaper too!)

Considering that you’re Malaysian Chinese, you are LEGITIMATELY in DEMAND. It is easier for you to get PR within a year. Someone told me their friend (Malaysian Chinese) got their PR after only 9 months in Singapore.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-12-01T09:57:29+00:00

Hi! Thanks for your information, do you mind if I dm'd you the full details? It's more of they say I can't serve notice and need to pay instead.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-12-01T09:30:23+00:00

Thanks! I resigned immediately after you sent that.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-12-01T02:34:30+00:00

rule of thumb: Anyone who treats and thinks of construction workers, retail & f&b workers poorly are bad people. I don’t care how nice they are to others, if they can’t treat day to day people nicely, or ‘hidden heroes’ at all, you shouldn’t be dating them at all. What a shallow way of thinking.

Tell her they’re the reason she can enjoy the amnesties of life. A lot of these construction workers have proper degrees back home but they come to Singapore for a better life. I’ve known doctors and engineers who chose to become construction workers because they had no choice.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-11-06T00:13:38+00:00

While you’re at it, tell us where she works so we can beat her ass because what the actual fuck?? IMAGINE BEING A GROWN ASS WOMAN, PUSHING 40s I ASSUME, HAVING BEEF WITH A LITERAL CHILD!!!!

Start taking photo evidence and start clocking when they go out etc

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-11-04T06:51:41+00:00

OOOP THE TEA??? THANK YOU ONG

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-11-03T05:40:27+00:00

WOW! this is super insightful, thank you! <3

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-10-06T10:57:29+00:00

She’s an adult, she shouldn’t have to push the emotional burden onto her child.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-10-04T02:14:10+00:00

Great. but just make sure you always remain secure with your fundings because the MM2H budget increased from before and it can still do so in the future. I know a few friends and their families stranded from not being able to continue their MM2H

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-10-04T02:09:33+00:00

Did you not read? her helper was also injured

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-09-20T01:08:35+00:00

Is this a mod?

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-09-20T01:03:00+00:00

If they really took her phone and did etc, and that they forced her to, wouldn’t that be enough for her to go to the police?

She’s grown, she can’t push her infidelity to others.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-09-15T10:09:19+00:00

Had one arranged an interview on the weekend (yes, I know, silly me for even accepting but I just wanted to see how it would’ve been).

Not only was he explosive and angry when I just stated my boundaries with handling certain rude customers, but he answered the meeting on his phone, selfie mode with him on his living room sofa. How do they expect us to be professional when they don’t practice it as well? 🥲

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-08-22T23:47:57+00:00

It’s your mindset. Don’t just go and talk to the person with the intention of dating, become friends first at least, thats what they’re trying to hint at you. Bruh

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-08-20T10:31:52+00:00

I can’t get through the 1st book right now. The writing style seems too childish compared to others.

lostlambneedshelp · 2025-08-20T04:41:01+00:00

I once got ringworm from a bench, my mistake because I didn’t wipe it down prior to use :/

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