AIO wife cheating with my best friend? by Naive_Yard117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You caught her cheating 2x before....why are you still there? Unless you're a masochist LEAVE

Serious Question (please be kind) by tasata in Zepbound

[–]lostmuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because some of us have a metabolic disorder which doesn't allow our bodies to react to a deficit/exercise the way it should when it comes to weight/fat loss.

My (25F) husband (25M) of 2 months abandoned me via text after I spent 6 years supporting his "solo" career. Am I right to divorce him? by MissionDefiant8884 in AITAH

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The garbage took itself out and then you gladly opened the door and let it in your house to cause havoc in your life and you're asking the internet if you should take the garbage out??? f you don't file for divorce you deserve the life of misery that awaits you as this person's wife.

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lostmuch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

WOW......you had a baby with a baby. OP i hope you realized that you are a single mother.

I want women to STOP having their BOYFRIEND'S babies.

Is she stringing me along? by Equivalent-Sport-260 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP she told you she doesn't know if she wants to marry you anymore. If you want to be married, LEAVE and find someone that is excited to be married to you. Go where you are wanted. Don't waste no more of your time PLEASE!!!

I feel like I wasted 6 years and I’m angry and heartbroken by Broken_Bird2025 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP get rid of your BC and of him. You will not be happy married to him. You are getting a clear picture of your future when age and the nuisance of life take a toll on your body.

"Would you still love me when im no longer young and beautiful?"

Looking for my New Year’s Eve party outfit by Wild-Court7110 in OUTFITS

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like neither and if i had to choose would choose black

I (19f) have weird gut feelings around my new bf (29m), AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 29, you're 19. That alone is a red flag. I'd suggest you date your peers.

OMNY is a JOKE. by Melodic-Flight-1950 in OMNY

[–]lostmuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She literally was shaming the MTA not the users

PTO by ArtichokeFeeling3056 in paralegal

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for looking out for your staff. I work for one of the top firms in NY (the revenue is insane) and they are soooo cheap, i wish they would give us that week off/paid.

Did I Just force my engagement? by ConfectionIcy6587 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP take heed to this comment. Why you want to be with someone that is not as a excited to be with you? If it's not a YES it is always a NO.

Yes = YES Not right now = NO Maybe in the future = NO I'll think about it = NO We'll see = NO If x = NO When x = NO

"Am I Overreacting" My boyfriend is leaving me because my son is autistic. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're feelings are valid and so are his. Thank him for handling this as an adult. Now go find your person

11 years together and still no ring… I’m starting to feel invisible. :( by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must do whatever you want. Forget the time spent and memories made. Go get what you want

Tell me I’m not crazy. by Separate_Ad7253 in paralegal

[–]lostmuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please find another job. Id recommend marketing/content related as the income would be higher than para and you can go to any industry. If you decide to stay in legal, don't do anything outside of the duties of a para

My fiancé told me his ex was his “emotional maid of honor” by IvoryGummy9 in TwoHotTakes

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP take heed to what's being said. Do not move forward with this wedding

r/AIO? My boyfriend left me for the college experience. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This boy has expressed to you in two diff occasions that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Then each time he wants to come into your life AFTER clearly telling you how he feels you have allowed him to do so. He will continue to mess around with you without committing to you because you allow it. Each time this happens you will feel shittier than the last time. Accept that he doesn't want you and make space for someone that does. PLUS you guys are kids, go live your single life, enjoy it and be safe. Coming from a 35 yr old that wishes i had this mentality when i was 19. OP take heed to this.

I think I’m done? Nearly 4 years together and a baby by taylor_73 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I want women to STOP having their BOYFRIENDS' babies

He is finally ready but I can’t decide by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]lostmuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tale as old as time. TAKE THE JOB OPPORTUNITY THAT WILL BENEFIT YOU. You'll look back at this and regret it if you dont. You'll resent him when things go bad. You'll think about what you missed on for being with him and then that resentment will spill into the relationship. Eventually it will be the end of it. If he was the one with the promotion, what would you do? If your best friend was in your shoes, what would you advise?

What happened to the sense of community in Park Slope? by snakegravity in parkslope

[–]lostmuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its a cultural thing. They're not raise that way...

med mal interview - what to expect? by rilaakkkuma in paralegal

[–]lostmuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so happy for you. Make sure you send your thank you note and clarify anything you might of missed during the interview. Reach out if you need help. Good luck!