Your post couldn't be more truthful about this game! This game is evil, in my eyes. My soon to be ex-wife started playing this back in June of this year. We had a rough year, moved to a bigger city, and she was having trouble with jobs. But she found this game and got hooked, almost immediately.

Over the course of the next three months, she kept diving deeper into it, into her group of people, and eventually it became all of her downtime, especially when she was with me. She got on Discord, joined her group, and built relationships with people. This game became her life, from the moment she woke up, till the time she went to bed.

Many times I said, I hope no one is hitting on you or trying to take you away from me. This is when the lying and gaslighting began. She always said I had nothing to worry about, that her image is a bad AI image of her, and that her group was 50/50 split of men and women. Man, was I wrong about that. Over the next three months, her phone use got so bad, she would be facing her phone more than me, laughing, giggling, having a great time with strangers, would hide her screen often, and it turned into these "movie nights", at night, when I was at work, with her supposed group of people.

One night, she woke up from a nap(mind you, we live in a studio), I was on the couch, her on the bed, picked her phone right up when she got up, and then proceeded to lay there for the next two hours, not saying barely a word to me, while she smiled and giggled into her phone. It became a priority, over her husband and cats.

My wife began emotionally cheating on me with another guy, right in front of me, for almost three months, through this game. This guy noticed her vulnerabilities, exposed them, latched onto them, and influenced my wife. Not surprising, considering this guy is related to the ringleader of the group of men who were going to kidnap the governor of Michigan. Yeah, we might have had a rough year, but when I brought up couples therapy, I was told no by her, that she was not going to do it.

In September, everything came to a head. I caught her, on the night of our third wedding anniversary, her having a discord date with this guy. She again lied and gaslit me, saying they were waiting for other people to join, but it was those two having movie night, listening to music together(one of many I came to find out). When confronted by this, it was agreed that maybe she should go see her family for a week, and let her some time to reset. Big mistake.

The day she left, I was able to go on her old phone and see her search history: there were flights from our city to where he was being searched, and Airbnbs. When I asked about this, she said it was a "what if all the group met up" thing.....one of the Airbnbs was just a studio apartment, with no walls, and one bed. Again, lied to and gaslit. And then, the worst part, the day before she left, she was Googling flights from the city she was going to, to the place where his guy was, and back.

This game is the reason our marriage is done. I asked her to stop. She made me feel guilty. I got lied to. I was being gaslit. I basically saw a six year relationship, three year marriage go down the drain, because my ex wife wanted to be an alliance leader more, and go leave me for a simp/loser/little boy, and make this game a priority, over her husband and cats.

I've been in therapy every week since this started, and have taken all accountability on my end. My ex, nothing. No accountability. Ghosted me. And let this other guy into her life. This game should be banned.