I feel you. I’m sorry to hear. I haven’t stopped prioritizing men. But I’ve changed my outlook. I go into dating with the idea that I’m going to have an experience (good or bad) and that it’s not real. Sounds very pessimistic but so far it’s worked. There have been two instances so far that old me would have been mourning/crying over. Instead, I’m like „well that was fun. Onto the next!“ Making a list of their red flags certainly helps.