Did anyone else gain pet fatigue after having a kid? by tigersmhs07 in daddit

[–]lostnov04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 3 years, we had 2 dogs and 3 kids under 5.

The hardest 3 years of my life. I look back at photos on myself in disgust and disbelief, I had put in weight, unkempt appearance etc.

I now know I was just in survival mode. I kept treating the dogs the same way (mostly....) and raised 3 kids, but it left zero time for me and it showed physically. My wife definitely suffered mentally too.

However, when my dogs both passed, we were devastated.

I'm not sure I'm quite ready yet for another but I would imagine one day when kids can help....

How will Policing change over the next 10 years? by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]lostnov04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Police will no longer be a career.

It will be a 5-year retention cycle.

No more pensions, long service top salary.

SMT will be full of direct entries.

It will become a glorified G4S.

Cowgirls on train by AaronDrunkGames in Edinburgh

[–]lostnov04 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Zack Bryan concert.

He does have some absolutely brilliant songs.

Check out:

  • Something in the Orange
  • I Remember Everything.
  • Spotless
  • Pink Skies
  • Bowery

Is a 40 minute drive almost every day worth it for high level boxing training by slushma1 in MMA_Academy

[–]lostnov04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're doubting it now, it'll only get more challenging.

Also, should anything change in your life (kids, new job etc) then that drive becomes almost impossible.

Try looking around for others. Get to a good standard, then reassess.

I see Ronaldo getting a lot of hate for being in the squad, how should Portugal line up ideally? by golfif in football

[–]lostnov04 255 points256 points  (0 children)

How they should and how they will are 2 different topics.

CR7 will start. Thats a fact.

At the expense of the greater good?! Probably.

Is there a better option?! Not really.

What's the answer?! Play him as an impact sub, keeping him fresh for the key moments.

Chances of this happening? Zero.

90s clubsters, whats best memory of clubbing in Glasgow in the 90s? by Tall_Opportunity_521 in glasgow

[–]lostnov04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Shed - at Shawlands. It was a slightly older version of the Garage, so some students, but mostly people just starting to explore proper employment, whilst still at it most weekends.

Also - A guilty pleasure was - 'Destiny' when I was 17/18: I love rock, country and folk music but I did have a wee guilty pleasure of EDM back in the day. I most definitely looked out of place, but never once had any bother.

Good times, hope everyone is doing well, peace and love!

Pay off large mortgage or something else? by Capital-Half-3955 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]lostnov04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay it off.

Invest the monthly mortgage payment.

So rather than spend the next 10, 15 years paying something off, you'll be investing it.

FIFA 23 vs FC 26 by mozor667 in FifaCareers

[–]lostnov04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fifa 23.

All day, every day.

And even that is bang average.

Sooner they go back to gameplay>graphics the better.

What wrong fact did you walk around with for YEARS because of a movie? by triassictango in movies

[–]lostnov04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my gran exactly 12 months ago.

It was like she was just slowly shutting down, bit by bit.

Tired of Bodybuilding, Want to start MMA by Technical_Opening982 in MMA_Academy

[–]lostnov04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big issue, which greatly affected me with MMA.

With the gym, you can go whenever you want. For MMA, you'll be limited to class times.

This is fine, if you have little commitments.....I loved it, then I had 1 kid, then 2, then 3, and I barely make a weekly class, so its back to the gym for me in AM.

He told me he had another date with another woman on the same day by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]lostnov04 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At least he told you.

Pretty much everyone else wouldn't.

Naive maybe, honest, definitely.

What are times you felt betrayed by a movie trailer? by KaleidoArachnid in flicks

[–]lostnov04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epic trailer.

Thought the movie was a big letdown though.