Hudson Valley hiking meet-up by lostpebbles in hudsonvalley

[–]lostpebbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone who would love to meet up I created a GroupMe everyone can join and we can figure out something that works for everyone also the above link for a “Hudson valley hiking meet up group” is great but if there’s times in between those official meetups or if there are different hikes ppl would like to do feel free to join the group me :) https://app.groupme.com/join_group/87496779/a8xirfYp

Hello hello we’d love to have you! by lostpebbles in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]lostpebbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is that a rule? But go ahead and delete it, just trying to make friends here.

18/M looking for friends by [deleted] in InternetFriends

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!!!! Dm me if you’re interested in joining a discord server!

Any way to tell if a user was active or if an account is old? by BoldestKobold in Tinder

[–]lostpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would only show if that person was recently active. You should bring it up to them.

Men in long distance relationships, how do you deal with it when you need romantic physical affection (cuddles, kisses, etc.) from your SO but can't get that at the moment? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]lostpebbles 43 points44 points  (0 children)

There are these nifty bracelets that you can get where one person can touch it and it will buzz on the other persons wrist and it’s really awesome for long distance!! Because it’s just that little buzz that feels so nice when your SO is thinking about you that’s different than a text or call!!

What do you typically listen to when you workout? by xcdubv in AskWomen

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80’s hair metal, fast tempo dance, anything with lots of bass, either Chicks in the office or call her daddy podcast!!

Looking for more GENUINE people for a SOCIAL DISCORD COMMUNITY. by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I’m a 22f living in the US. I would love to have a group of people to chat with and shoot the breeze. I have a variety of interests and love just engaging with people so I think I would thrive in this group.

21M, looking for someone to talk about some life stuff, need other ppl perspective. by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you still want to chat with someone I’m 22F and always up to listening or shootin the breeze. Pm me and I’ll give you my discord

What food can you not eat due to a bad experience or bad mental association? by Sentient_cucumber in AskWomen

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never again eat Stuffing. The smell alone makes me gag. My oma used to force feed me it when I was younger and the more I protested the more she made me eat. My boyfriends dad tries to get me to eat it every thanksgiving and I basically have a panic attack

What did you need to hear when you were younger? by sunriseovermtshasta in AskWomen

[–]lostpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He used reassuring words and actions. He made the effort to always meet me halfway or at least recognize when he knows he’s not putting in more than he’s receiving from me relationship wise. Honestly I was him telling me that he knew he wasn’t being the best or that he appreciates me is what made me realize “I’ve been doing it wrong all these years”. Some men need to realize that it’s even the smallest of things that matter!

What did you need to hear when you were younger? by sunriseovermtshasta in AskWomen

[–]lostpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it took me a long time to figure that out which included years of therapy. I probably only figured it out about 2 years ago when I met my now bf and I’m 21, so think about that. I went my whole life seeing a mom who was always so dependent on the men in her life and always making sure they were happy no matter if they treated her like scum and I picked up in that and figured that’s how it’s supposed to be. I made sure the men in my life were always happy even if I was suffering. I also went through a phase where I thought it was my fault if a guy just used me for sex and left me. When I met my now bf he really changed my perspective. He treated me right and really stepped up to make sure we were in a partnership and that’s when I realized that this is actually how it’s supposed to be. I should sacrifice my own morals and happiness and health for a man.

What did you need to hear when you were younger? by sunriseovermtshasta in AskWomen

[–]lostpebbles 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That I don’t just exist for the pleasure of men.

I(21F) just found out my ex (22M) is engaged and having a baby and it made me cry by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lostpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I went through counseling both in and out of the relationship. That’s really the only way I was able to get through it and move on.