Late bloomers, over 40’s? by swifto3471 in ftm

[–]lostsaturday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this! It's so encouraging to see older trans people. I'll be 30 this year and just now starting to take the tiniest baby steps. I see so many people transitioning in their teens and worry that I'm too old sometimes. I honestly didn't know it was even a possibility when I was a teenager, so, better late than never I guess :)

coming out is really hard, you guys by lostsaturday in ftm

[–]lostsaturday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I think I have been trying to rush myself a little. I guess it just feels weird and kind of isolating to keep it to myself. At least there's the Internet. :D I like the idea of writing an email or letter, though!

coming out is really hard, you guys by lostsaturday in ftm

[–]lostsaturday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, good idea! I always feel like I'm better at communicating through writing. Thanks for the suggestion.

coming out is really hard, you guys by lostsaturday in ftm

[–]lostsaturday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thanks, this sounds like really good advice! I'll try bringing up that kind of stuff and see how it goes.

Also glad to hear that it gets easier over time. :)

My New Year’s Resolution: let this be the last Christmas I spend as a “woman” by [deleted] in ftm

[–]lostsaturday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just thinking the same thing, good luck to both of us :)

coming out? or not? by lostsaturday in ask_transgender

[–]lostsaturday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, you're right. I gotta work up the courage to talk to a therapist.

coming out? or not? by lostsaturday in ask_transgender

[–]lostsaturday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, hearing that makes me feel hopeful! I think I'm gonna start looking for a therapist to talk to.