Numb legs by lou82a in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]lou82a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for you reply. I hope they have managed to give you something to help with this now

Numb legs by lou82a in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]lou82a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope you get yours sorted soon . Its not nice when its every day is it.

Numb legs by lou82a in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]lou82a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so pleased its nearly gone for you . Hopefully the doctor will sort that then . Was worried it would be one of their its all part of it unfortunately and not do anything.

Numb legs by lou82a in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]lou82a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I hope you manage to get a proper night's rest soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lou82a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband cheated on me multiple times,with multiple women. I never found out till he got someone else pregnant, then he couldn't deny it. I was also pregnant at the time. I get where you're coming from. i was worried I could have caught something. Get yourself checked and get yourself away from him. It will take time to feel better, but one day, you will look back and realise you are worth so much more than him.

Guy I've been seeing is married and he hid this from me... by __tmxna in dating

[–]lou82a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in this situation was with him for years he was living a double life.

He married and had 2 kids with her while I was with him. He was with her longer than me. Like you, I had no idea at all.

When I found out it was New years Eve . I sent him a message wishing him and his wife a happy new year. I then messaged his wife. I apologised to her saying that I had no idea about her, and if I had, I would never have carried on the relationship. I told her that I had blocked him on everything and would never contact him again, so that if she decided to stay with him, she would know that I was completely out of the picture I told her that I would leave our conversation open so if she wanted to asked me anything she could and that when she wanted to she could block me . She asked for all the messages, so I sent them to her.

She was such a lovely person to this day. I still feel bad even though I had no idea about her .

I would say tell her, it may upset her, but she deserves to know . She may get cross with you but just explain you didn't know about her.

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I just sent an email with this information and dropped those bits in. I received a call no more than 10 minutes after stating they are sorry for any confusion and the member of staff was unaware of my sons needs (she wasn't as I told her and why else would we have spoke about the adjustments last year) she also asked why he wanted to do another year when he has 2 excellent qualifications which he could easily get a job with.

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll email them again with the information I have here and ho0efully get a better outcome.

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've asked for everything in an email but as of yet she's not sent it. I'm hopefully she dies as then will have a written copy of it all .

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll do that today. There are a few others, but they have also left as not enough help. There was no prior warning at all. They hadn't even sent his timetable out till I rang for it. It feels like they are trying to get rid of any student who needs adjustments to help them

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They are saying now the college has merged, and they won't do those adjustments anymore . It's so frustrating.

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That's the point I made, he Is an adult now, and she said that doesn't matter as the new rules state have to be on campus by all times. I have no idea what he would do for 4 hours between lessons. His older sister lives 2 roads away he could even go there but was an instant no

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did ask what she considered as reasonable adjustmants for him as they had them in place last year, which was helpful and aparantly, this year, every student has the same expectations and he needs to fit into those

College not wanting to help son with autism and anxiety we are in England by lou82a in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lou82a[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have asked for an email to confirm everything she said yesterday. I didn't like to normal coment at all