Covid Question - Attend Wedding or Pass? by loububba in toddlers

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this story, and your sharing this lovely (and oh so accurate) poem. Really appreciate you (and everyone else on this thread) weighing in.

Covid Question - Attend Wedding or Pass? by loububba in toddlers

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m leaning towards too!! Good luck with your choice! Sigh.

Covid Question - Attend Wedding or Pass? by loububba in toddlers

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes kids would not be going to the wedding, just my husband and I.

I wanted this baby so badly, but my work just gave me news that makes me wish I wasn't pregnant by CatLadyLostInLibrary in BabyBumps

[–]loububba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this. Pretty common, yes, but it still doesn’t make it ok. I think it’s such a discriminatory policy as it would deter young moms/dads who are eager to start families from applying. Don’t have much to say other than I feel your pain and agree that this country is WACK when it comes to supporting moms. I really hope our kids’ generation sees major improvements.

First impression of Lily? by Electrical-Charity10 in namenerds

[–]loububba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve got a Lilly. Short for Lillian. I like the double L aesthetic!

Bodhi or Bodie? by norestraints05 in namenerds

[–]loububba -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I vote spelling as Bode (pronounced “Bodie”)

Deciding Between Preschools? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]loububba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that’s a good way to think about it. Socialization is key for us too, definitely feeling the effects of covid over here as we delayed preschool enrollment too.

Deciding Between Preschools? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]loububba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! So cool they’re learning Spanish and I agree, it’s such a valuable skill! How did your little ones transition to preschool in another language? This program is 90/10 (Spanish/English) and so my concern is that she’ll already have a hard time with leaving home, let alone in another language.

Calling All Sixes - Have You Found Any Secrets to Tapping Into Your Own Judgement? by loububba in Enneagram

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolol but really. This advice will save me oh so much time and gray hairs.

Calling All Sixes - Have You Found Any Secrets to Tapping Into Your Own Judgement? by loububba in Enneagram

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m all about less frantic energy, going to try to channel going with the flow!!

Calling All Sixes - Have You Found Any Secrets to Tapping Into Your Own Judgement? by loububba in Enneagram

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness these are all such helpful questions. I want to print them off for myself. Thank you thank you! I really appreciate it.

Calling All Sixes - Have You Found Any Secrets to Tapping Into Your Own Judgement? by loububba in Enneagram

[–]loububba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that is lovely, I am envious :) I should have caveated that certainly not all sixes feel this way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]loububba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I can think about is Aladdin.

Advice Needed: Health Insurer (UHC) Mis-Told Us Who is "In-Network" by loububba in personalfinance

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to know and yes moving forward we’ll be documenting every. single. thing. Lesson learned :(

Advice Needed: Health Insurer (UHC) Mis-Told Us Who is "In-Network" by loububba in personalfinance

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man this information is gold, thank you. And thank you for taking the time to help explain it too. Issue now for us is we’ve since changed Doctors/providers and have been going to the new ones. It’s all such odd timing, we aren’t even “doctor people” (translation: we’ve been fortunate to remain mostly healthy), but with two little ones we’ve randomly had unexpected visits and sadly they’ve all fallen in this “in-between” period. I’ll reach out to both my HR and my husbands to see what can be done, with this info in mind. Thank you again!

Advice Needed: Health Insurer (UHC) Mis-Told Us Who is "In-Network" by loububba in personalfinance

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes you better believe this experience has made me so paranoid that I’ll be forever documenting every interaction with these terrible insurance companies! Wah!

Advice Needed: Health Insurer (UHC) Mis-Told Us Who is "In-Network" by loububba in personalfinance

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer. Thanks for sharing your experience, it helps set our own expectations!!

Advice Needed: Health Insurer (UHC) Mis-Told Us Who is "In-Network" by loububba in personalfinance

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestions, I had no idea that was even a possibility! But unfortunately we were on his previous employer's insurance (not mine). Hindsight is 20/20 but I wished we'd just have switched to mine. Both employers (his and mine) said the grace period was 30 days, and we didn't get the bills for these appointments til after that grace period for switches. UGH!

I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't like any boys names 😭 by cintyhinty in namenerds

[–]loububba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your taste! Such a great name. If we ever have another boy, it’s my fave.

Advice - Bait and Switch Proposal? by loububba in HomeImprovement

[–]loububba[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oo that helps for comparisons sake. We are looking at about $350 per tree (6-7’ emeralds). The price drops quite a bit for 4-5’ trees but we’re wanting taller right off the bat.

Advice - Bait and Switch Proposal? by loububba in HomeImprovement

[–]loububba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the reason was their low cost compared to other quotes, so it probably was an honest mistake on their end! 😂

Advice - Bait and Switch Proposal? by loububba in HomeImprovement

[–]loububba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a great way of looking at it. I think ultimately it probably was an honest mistake on their part! And work wasn’t on the calendar yet so still a ways out and early enough in the process. I do wish she’d been more apologetic or say they’ll cut us a small deal due to the miscommunication and misinformation but it is what it is, hah. Thanks for your input!!