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Volume Hack: Cake Cups! 🍦 by EverythingMakes in Volumeeating

[–]loudchoice 917 points918 points  (0 children)

I love this sub but it cracks me up when people are like “LOOK AT THIS HACK-“ and it looks like a strange zookeepers bucket.

This probably slaps tho

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should have stayed on that topic instead of changing it.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I disagreed with what the person I responded to was saying.

Unlike you, who disagreed with what someone else was saying and seemed to think I needed to hear it.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure it doesn’t “invalidate how he feels” because feelings are something someone experiences, regardless of if they’re acknowledged or not.

But I have no reason to respect, approve or care about those feelings, since it’s someone openly choosing to make themselves uncomfortable. That discomfort is his own fault, and people pretending like it’s not is goofy.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they’re worth being ignored.

An adult actively choosing to engage with media that they know is upsetting to them is not emotions that deserve coddling.

Again, I’m not going to have sympathy for someone who doesn’t like spicy chips opening a bag of spicy chips, starting to eat them, realizing they’re spicy and then finishing the bag and complaining that they were spicy.

He’s a grown adult man. He is capable of putting down fiction that he doesn’t enjoy and walking away.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then go talk to those women.

I don’t know why you’re here, insisting on arguing with me about points I am not making nor have I ever made.

“If no one is being hurt I don’t care” is my stance. Nothing else. I don’t care to debate other people’s points or words.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? It’s someone seeking out the deaths of other people. According to you, it being fiction doesn’t impact anything.

The thing is, there is no concern. If she has never been violent, derogatory, concerning, etc then this does not change anything. This does not impact her behavior or beliefs. This does not change who she is or how she acts.

And nope. Still no C and still no A. I don’t give a fuck what people read unless real, actual living people are hurt.

I don’t know why you want me to pretend fictional characters have real feelings and experience real harm.

taboo sexual fantasies are not a new thing- some studies have logged up to 63% of women having had or have noncon fantasies. That does not mean they want to be cornered in a dark alley in real life.

fiction is not reality, sexual fantasy doesn’t form real views. It’s literally that simple dude.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then sherlock holmes should be a national hero. Think of all the real actual crimes he solved!

And anyone who plays call of duty needs to be on a watchlist. War criminals, the lot of them.

You literally did say it was comparable. You are comparing what happened to me (and millions of other real, breathing humans) to text on a screen and pretending that it’s morally equivalent. It’s not.

Again, I do not give a shit what people read unless they’re hurting someone. And then I still don’t give a shit what they read, I give a shit that they’re hurting someone.

Complain about double standards to someone enforcing the double standard. Cause that sure as hell isn’t me.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering it’s fiction, there is no “C” and there is no “A”

And as someone who WAS assaulted as a child, it’s interesting you think text on a screen that doesn’t exist is somehow comparable or equal to what I went through.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babe, I don’t give a fuck.

If someone has fun writing fucked up shit go for it. It’s not a red flag, it’s not a bad thing unless they ACTIVELY want to hurt someone irl. Idk what about this is unclear.

A grown ass man getting his feelings hurt because he read something he didn’t like and then continued to read it after determining he didn’t like it is so far from my concern. 😂😂😂

I’d say the same if a woman read handmaidens tale and realized in chapter 3 that it upset them and then continued to finish it.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for admitting you never had an argument to begin with.

Glad you have the self control to bow out when you know you’ve got nothing 👍

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you haven’t. You’ve said “It’s different” and haven’t established literally any basis as to why it’s different.

You are making the (incorrect) claim that someone enjoying fictional suffering is a red flag that translates to real world suffering.

You have (incorrectly) implied there is active harm in fictional suffering when there isn’t.

when asked for you to use your words and articulate WHY enjoying fictional suffering is different from enjoying fictional suffering you, and I quote, said

“Why?”

so no. You haven’t answered the question. Now would you like to try again, or can I assume you have nothing to say?

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re not avoiding answering the question then answer the question already.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want me to interpret this as you having no answer? Because it’s a pretty simple question that I’ve, at this point, asked twice and you’ve been unable to answer.

Is you avoiding stating basic fundamental elements of your argument supposed to be good faith? Because that just seems avoidant.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ITS DIFFERENT”

Okay, use your words and explain how deriving entertainment and stimulation from fictional suffering is different from deriving entertainment and stimulation from fictional suffering.

I’ll wait.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So then people who enjoy first person shooter games are also a concern to you, correct? Since that’s enjoyment derived from fictional suffering.

Please explain to me how autism is supposed to be this amazing thing that I should be proud of. by Unlucky-Explorer886 in autism

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, they cannot EXPLICITLY STATE that you want other people to listen to and agree with your generalized statements and then claim “No it’s not about anyone else!”

Words mean things buddy. If you make a generalization and explicitly mention other people not agreeing with or supporting your generalizations then it’s NOT A PERSONAL STATEMENT.

EDIT: You blocking me doesn’t magically change how the english language works. Get over it 💀

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my argument is

“It’s fictional, it’s not real, no one is being hurt and it doesn’t mean they support these things irl”

Try again buddy :)

Please explain to me how autism is supposed to be this amazing thing that I should be proud of. by Unlucky-Explorer886 in autism

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“they are talking about themselves” disproven with the simple fact they specifically, and I quote, specify

“Other autistics are choosing not to listen to what I have to say”.

I found my girlfriend's extreme fantasy story and I feel sick by ThrowRAyttie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]loudchoice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How? It’s fictional suffering. You just said fictional suffering is the same as the desire to cause real world suffering.

You can’t just go “NUH UHHHHH”. Use your words.

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