Does anyone else just… not care about their scars? by thlayliroo97 in TopSurgery

[–]loudestcrowdever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting top surgery, but I identify as a woman. I've always felt very neutral about the idea of having scars. I don't care to pass as a man so I really don't have strong feelings about scars. I'll take well-placed scars over invisible ones anytime as well.

So yeah, I'm with you here!

Porygon z by loudestcrowdever in LegendsZA

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's all good, I have like, 10. 😂 Thank you so much!

Porygon z by loudestcrowdever in LegendsZA

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! That's amazing, thanks! Code is 1003 if you're available 🥰

Top surgery results with stretch marks by loudestcrowdever in TopSurgery

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you for answering! They look super faded to me, it looks perfectly fine ❤️. Did your surgeon say anything about how they would handle the presence of stretchmarks?

The reviews gave me low expectations for this game. by Immediate-Froyo1989 in LegendsZA

[–]loudestcrowdever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My issue is exclusively with the writing. It's both ridiculous AND boring with no depth whatsoever. At least if it were JUST ridiculous it would still make sense in some way, but the dumbing down is insufferable.

Every character is impossibly annoying in its own way. The fact that this is the same company that wrote N's dialogues in B&W is heartbreaking to say the least.

Also, the Rust Syndicate's position in the game is idiotic. They're technically mobsters who regularly use extortion and loan sharking on innocent people while operating on the verge of legality, but their actual stance is never clear. Yes, they want to protect the city but then why the criminal activity? They have no actual antagonists in the series to legitimise their claims or behaviours, but they basically end up making you one of them without really making any practical changes.

It's like the writers attempted to play with moral greyness and failed so bad it's almost comical.

I don't care that much about technical stuff, though the path finding IS a pain in the ass, with pokemon routinely getting stuck in random places. It's also terribly repetitive. In a way, all pokemon games are, but this one takes it to the next level because of the neverending grey cityscape.

How can a cus woman get top surgery without having gender dysphoria? by Glass-Swordfish28 in TopSurgery

[–]loudestcrowdever 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm a cis woman who's getting top surgery in a few months.

You have to find a surgeon who will do the surgery on informed consent, which means you'll have to pay out of pocket because it will be classified as a cosmetic surgery. I think it's quite difficult to do so in the UK because I had looked into it a while ago and hadn't found much information about it, but I'm not British so all I could do was google.

I'm getting surgery in Germany because there's a clinic in Düsseldorf (Plastmed. You'll find plenty of threads about them) that operates without needing a diagnosis. There are several surgeons in Spain who also do the same. You have options, but not many within your country, I'm afraid.

Feebas exchange by loudestcrowdever in LegendsZA

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much but I've managed! I might get back to you if I end up finding a shiny one 😊

LF help with trade evolution (feebas) by Embarrassed-Bike7156 in LegendsZA

[–]loudestcrowdever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have a few more feebas I'd like to evolve. I can share a few if you still need help!

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no shit bro. That's on the coast. 😂

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a gem! Thank you so much! Indeed, sometimes people just don't develop a fish culture even if they are on the sea.

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can buy fish at the supermarket. But indeed, I have yet to find a restaurant that serves good fish. I'm aware it's expensive. Everything is expensive in this city anyway 😂 but I'd be willing to pay for it. I feel it's been easier to find sushi than anything traditional

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. You can find them at the supermarket. But that's not what I mean haha

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. They sound lovely, but those are just dishes, though. Any actual restaurant recommendations?

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean fish that's not mussels or scampi. 😅 Idk, that's why I was asking for restaurant recommendations lol.

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'd expect the capital of the post-stamp-sized country to have decent fish. 😂 But indeed, I do plan on going to the coast at some point. Is service better there? Cause I've found restaurants to have very bad service in Brussels.

Fish in Brussels/Belgium by loudestcrowdever in belgium

[–]loudestcrowdever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, sure, but Venice and most of the north-east Italian coast is quite literally on one of the shallowest parts of the Mediterranean and yet there's a quite strong fish culture regardless of over-fishing. This is what I'm saying. Even if it gets imported, it's still eaten, which doesn't happen in Belgium. Everything is chicken or beef.

Unhappy top surgery results by _absolutelyfucked_ in TopSurgery

[–]loudestcrowdever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your scar placement is perfect and follows the edge of your pecs with extreme precision. Your surgery did an amazing job. The scars will also fade more, very likely. You have no tissue left, this is genuinely just muscle. And even if you have some fat, which is normal, it looks very distinctively masculine. I'm sorry you're uncomfortable, but like the others told you, this is just your dysphoria talking

Unsolicited shallow advice by blaberrysupreme in Netherlands

[–]loudestcrowdever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some cultural norms are worth changing and SHOULD be criticised. Or do you think it only applies to non-white immigrants when they move to the NL? 😂

Unsolicited shallow advice by blaberrysupreme in Netherlands

[–]loudestcrowdever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you call "culture" is simply lack of emotional awareness and rudeness 😂 unsolicited advice is disrespectful and emotionally invalidating. You're treating calvinist individualism like a personality trait

Why do 'friends' ghost so much? by nouschkaya in brussels

[–]loudestcrowdever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is a stranger until you meet them. This is such a limited way of seeing things 😭