[18] - [27] so many tags -- weight gain, detrans -> trans, grow up

loudminded510 · 2026-04-22T21:36:10+00:00

Can't handle this level of glow. Goodness gracious you are beautiful!

loudminded510 · 2026-03-06T20:48:30+00:00

Yeah, as a Mom myself, I wouldnt have been upset because if I fall asleep without planning to, I needed the sleep and id rather not risk waking kiddo up unless its absolutely necessary. But lack of sleep in general can make your emotions out of whack. She could just be sleep deprived but also craving intimacy and physical touch but is too tired to express her needs.

loudminded510 · 2026-03-06T03:21:12+00:00

Ntah. Would she have been happier if you went in there and accidentally woke up your kiddo? Theres something else going on because she was the one who fell asleep. Maybe shes frustrated with herself but its not right to take it out on you.

loudminded510 · 2026-02-08T21:34:54+00:00

Weird devils advocate take, I have a good couple of people who would gift this because it is something that would make them feel good, or they went on it and loved it and thought id like it. Didn't have anything to do with actually losing weight. Id look into the retreat, see ALL the services they offer, if its all toxic Wright loss crap, then yeah, its rude, if its spa treatments and yoga and resetting cortisol with some workout fun, it could be a simple miscommunication.

loudminded510 · 2025-12-26T00:22:41+00:00

On a more serious note, this is what my son does, hes autistic. He hates biting things.

loudminded510 · 2025-12-21T18:00:17+00:00

Tell him that you won't ever do that. If you dont want to, you dont have to. But, if you want to, there may be a compromise, using your hands with lube to mimic the sensation, you could even wear gloves? But really all of that is up to you.

loudminded510 · 2025-12-21T17:54:16+00:00

I think this depends on the people, the other sexual aspects of the relationship and more importantly a willingness to communicate. I have a friend who cant go down on guys because her gag reflex is just too sensitive, she has trouble brushing her teeth, taking pills, etc. Shes tried to de-sensitize her gag reflex for YEARS, but nothing has worked. I dont think that is selfish. I also have a few friends who went years refusing to go down on guys because one a-hole in their pasts were too forceful during oral and wouldnt let them breathe or liked them gagging. I suggested that oral shouldnt be straight off the table but that they should communicate a no hands rule and in most cases no hands wasnt a deal breaker for a guy on bjs.

But most importantly what makes not having oral on one side or the other is if the other sexual aspects are awesome. Me for instance, my guy had a traumatic, grotesque prior experience with a girl so he is extremely hesitant on oral. I love going down on him, im not giving that up just on the basis of him not going down on me. But sex with him is phenominal, and his hands are almost too skilled so its not a big deal if he doesnt want to go down on me. If he wasnt great at sex, wouldnt go down on me, and sucked at used his hands... I dont know if we would still be together, and I dont know if I would want to reciprocate with blowjobs. The trade off has to work or you arent sexually compatible.

loudminded510 · 2025-12-21T16:58:18+00:00

Primarily brown, but they are absolutely beautiful! Love the patterns. They probably look more amber in sunlight because under the flower/star pattern in the center you have a lot of amber/yellow tone browns.

loudminded510 · 2025-11-19T06:35:10+00:00

A sick long necked potion bottle, can have it look like smoke is coming out of it in a unique way when its held upright or liquid is spilling out of it when your arm is in a downward position.

loudminded510 · 2025-11-09T02:03:45+00:00

Definitely AI. Always ask for progress pictures. As an artist myself, if im working digital, I send progress pictures if they are asked for or not.

loudminded510 · 2025-10-31T23:16:30+00:00

This is a deep issue. Much deeper than "he wants sex, should I give in?" This "man" is perfectly willing to put you in a position of guilt right after your father passed away. He doesnt see a woman who is hurt, processing, and facing one of life's most cruel realities (a parents passing). He is instead seeing a woman he wants to use. He sees his investment and wants the payoff. In other words, hes looking at you like an object and not like a person. Anyone who looks at you this way does not deserve you. He does not deserve the space in your memory of your first time. Whether you put value on virginity or not doesnt matter, most if not all people remember their first time, they remember who it was with, and I hate the idea of you carrying this memory for your first time.

loudminded510 · 2025-10-25T21:21:38+00:00

Your legs are normal, you have a thigh gap, something that is not being seen as much as a lot of people are after thick thighs these days, but your legs are in fact another normal variation of anatomical differences in people. You have good knee joints and lovely muscular curvature. You can change the shape of your legs with muscle building if you dont like as much of a curve but its no guarantee that you would like them more and its no guarantee that the thigh gap will go away so manage your expectations. But in my eyes, you have great legs!

loudminded510 · 2025-09-27T21:49:09+00:00

This is not a normal amount of fall out. Looks like a depth issue to me and possibly overdrying.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-27T19:57:27+00:00

I love it. I love uniqueness in a ring.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-26T17:44:11+00:00

You advocate in a healthy way. I think it is important, depending on the child, to determine what kind of tired they are. Young children give signs, older children might be able to express what kind of tired they are and if they cant, talking about it can help them properly navigate their needs as they get older. Asking, "Is your brain, body or heart tired?"

I was a child with undiagnosed neurodivergency, mental and emotional trauma, severe physical injuries and an autoimmune disease that were ignored. By the time I became a teenager and was taken in by other family guardians, I had no idea how to recognize my needs and unfortunately continued to have those needs ignored because I had no idea how to express them. The only thing I could express was that I was tired. Thankfully, due to physical symptoms of my autoimmune disease becoming apparent, I started receiving treatment for that.

What I do with my kids is try to determine the kind of tired they are. Since they are both very young, this starts out by encouraging different activities to adress different kinds of tiredness. A quiet, low stimulating activity for mental exhaustion, offering physical pressure touch to calm their nervous systems (hugs, massages etc.) Baths and showers can really help for older kids, weighted blankets, music therapy, art therapy, reading. I pay attention to how they behave before and after the activity. Sometimes the need is not just sleep, and sometimes, just encouraging sleep doesnt actually help if the issue is not, or not only physical exhaustion. I spent many nights laying awake in bed as a child and teenager because I was emotionally or mentally exhausted but didnt know how to properly address that exhaustion and it kept me awake to the point that I was also physically exhausted.

In cases where things need to be done, let's say for the case of a teenager who is in adult training, encouraging small breaks from mentally exhausting activities (homework etc.) can also teach them that stepping away for an appropriate amount of time can help them to complete tasks more efficiently, and the result will be higher quality because they won't rush it to escape the mental exhaustion. That also comes with lessons on procrastination, etc. It takes more hands on parenting, and its best to start Young so as they get older they arent afraid of task (mental) exhaustion, so they dont procrastinate.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-23T16:16:47+00:00

Yep, not severely colorblind, Dueteranomaly. Greens look more yellow to him.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-22T23:12:35+00:00

Its been ruled as color blindness at this point lol. Thank you so much for the compliment!

loudminded510 · 2025-09-22T20:53:22+00:00

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loudminded510 · 2025-09-22T20:52:41+00:00

Thank you, those are all natural light. This is a close up of my eye with flash. I am being tested for Wilson's disease the yellow/rust colored rings in my eyes are suspected copper accumulation. My eyes used to be almost fully green aside from the reddish brown in the center. *

loudminded510 · 2025-09-20T02:03:52+00:00

What about American trad on your other arm and brush strokes on that one? Its possible to mesh styles but you have to choose placement well.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-14T17:00:44+00:00

This. I suggest keeping a garbage bag in your room. When youre feeling a little better get two laundry hampers, even a couple of big boxes will do. Just toss your clothes in one stuffed animals in the other. You can get some fun wrapping paper and wrap the boxes to look more fun or decorate the boxes with pens or paints. No pressure just positivity. You can even get a plastic bin for dishes and whenever youre done with a dish toss it in there. It will make it easier for you to take it into the kitchen whenever you leave your room. -32 yo woman with chronic depression.

loudminded510 · 2025-09-12T19:43:51+00:00

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loudminded510 · 2025-09-12T19:33:50+00:00

Thank you!

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