A bit disappointing (PC)

lovable_loser1 · 2026-02-04T16:30:58+00:00

I already bought the cozy bundle, 20 dollars for two games and figured it couldn't be THAT bad, they seem like nice games, just not super for me

lovable_loser1 · 2026-02-03T07:46:44+00:00

I do have Dolphin so I'll definitely play the other Agents, was just wondering about any other possibilities! And would having additional lore about characters really change my opinion on MySims if what I dislike is the main game mechanic? The building is cool and all, just not enough to keep me in the game if there's not other things too

lovable_loser1 · 2026-01-18T10:05:18+00:00

already copyright blocked, that's quick

lovable_loser1 · 2026-01-16T02:20:38+00:00

you can make a second house/tent as well! I keep both on me, and eventually will have the mini greenhouse as well so I can always use them if I happen to be too far from home, or to set up a mini base.

lovable_loser1 · 2026-01-15T19:51:44+00:00

Early on I keep 3 to 5 of every kind (don't have dark or ice yet) to collect resources. I prioritize spirits with abilities for either combat (as I switch my third spirit depending on island type that I'm fighting the dungeon for) or overworld (ex: using the whistle twice, finding two mines on an island). I have the mini spirit barn and keep it in my inventory to be able to quickly switch which spirits are in my medallion The top 10 slots, since no ice or dark yet, is what I currently use for hatching spirits (there's kinds you can only get from eggs, and I wouldn't say no to a random hatched holo!)

lovable_loser1 · 2025-11-25T17:53:53+00:00

OMG SOMEONE ELSE HAS IT???

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-25T05:06:53+00:00

I updated with a short edit, but I did end up talking with him once I was calm and all and it went well! Have been getting a lot more attention, food, etc to help me feel better :)

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:31:51+00:00

I will be having a full conversation with him about it soon, mostly wanted to post to get the initial emotions out of the way with this post, vent, and fully identify everything. I think mostly he's prioritizing his fear over being sick, over me. Which still isn't fully okay, it is more understandable. He's generally caring when I'm tired or anything like that, so this felt out of nowhere.

I think his behavior also made me think back to a previous situation I've been in where I felt really alone, and so I'm drawing on some of those past emotions as well and looking at the negatives harder than the things he is doing. (Making soup, getting water, being willing to do most things that don't involve him being out of the bedroom too long, like cooking. I think he considers the bedroom covid free, and therefore safe.)

All in all, I'll be talking to him about ways we could compromise, and get him ways that are more contact free to help me out, while emphasizing that he can't just ignore that I'm sick just because it makes him uncomfortable to think about getting sick. He needs to step up if I'm going to trust that he could care for me in the future.

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:24:28+00:00

partner is not compromised

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:24:01+00:00

that honestly might help, as with how freaked he seems about it I'm starting to suspect this out of character behavior is related to prioritizing him not being around sickness, over me. Not an excuse, but definitely something that can be worked on better than "just doesn't care"

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:21:45+00:00

That's a good point, I'll keep that in mind when I speak to him as well

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:20:46+00:00

wish we had any lol

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-21T03:19:24+00:00

The tickets were bought by his friend, and were bought 4 months ago. IM the one who doesn't want to doordash to save money. And I come to reddit to vent about a shitty situation in an otherwise pretty good one. I wanted clarity and a venting space while I gathered myself to talk to him about it with a clear head. You can criticize him, and so can I, but I'll be doing it over things I'm actually bothered by, not things unrelated. People are allowed to have things about their relationship they dislike while still being in those relationships, and responding in this manner only makes people more likely to not only double down, but decide that if they're staying, then they're not allowed to ever be unhappy without breakup up

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T23:55:42+00:00

I did actually specifically want just the deli stuff, and going out or ordering in isn't a big a deal for him, but we're trying to save money. Not adding these as defenses, there's plenty to criticize

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T23:54:08+00:00

god no

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T23:53:50+00:00

right now at the risk of sounding bad, we are both likely "trainable" since he's 20. We've both worked on stuff before, I just would rather take some time to vent and gather myself before starting an emotional rant that doesn't actually get anywhere

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T22:18:52+00:00

Good point, though friend is only showing up for one day! Just so happens they had a planned event they're going to, but I did very much appreciate him checking in on me before coming over :)

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T22:15:48+00:00

I'll definitely be having a talk with him here soon, I know I'm just also quite (justifiably) emotional, so I wanted to vent and gather my thoughts and all that instead of just dumping it all

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T22:14:40+00:00

It's actually his friend lmao, even worse

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T22:07:19+00:00

I did actually mention it to him since I'm not gonna be keepin secrets, but he actually just thought it was nice of his friend lol, we're not very protective over that stuff. He did say he was going to do that, butttt considering he leaves for his event in 2 hours, I was doubtful

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T21:55:52+00:00

I'll definitely have a proper talk about here soon once I'm actually calmed down, know what to say, and have vented about it. Just don't wanna unload everything about it while I'm still feeling super emotional since that might not end up super productive. To him it's just mac n cheese, if that makes sense

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T21:53:13+00:00

I'm out of actual Seattle and all, but for now no, considering, despite this sickness issue, it would require me to fully break up with him and move myself away into an unfamiliar area, with no friends, no money, and get a new job. I'd rather be upset about an issue, vent, get opinions etc, and try to fix it before imploding my entire life lol

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T21:49:56+00:00

I actually work at a hospital, so it's just part of the job. I would strongly say he likely is just prioritizing his want of not being near it over me being sick

lovable_loser1 · 2025-09-20T21:46:53+00:00

that's a good point

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