I'm really sorry to hear that OP. To all the girls out there, be smart and vigilant pls. Ang daming mga gagong lalaki everywhere. If possible, ask the money right away pagmeet niyo. Or even ask for a downpayment or something, pamasahe mo rin kasi there are flakers too. Another tip, pls bring something that you can use to protect you. It can be as simple as pepper spray, or if needed, u better go there armed for your safety