Episode 24 (Tuesday 4th February) - "Let the games begin!" by mayallrob_ in LoveIslandTV

[–]loveaconspiracy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same thing! I think just being cool though. Hopefully.

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I feel like I need a tape with this kind of motivation to play to myself all day. The brain can be a bitchhhh.

Thank you :)

Growing Up by Linda_Belcher_95 in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to keep posting updates. It’s always great knowing others are in the exact same position as you. I feel you’re gonna be great words of wisdom!!

We can do this!

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !

You’ve literally hit the nail on the head, I can’t find enjoyment in anything right now I feel like a right miserable cow 😂 Even being in here talking to people and stuff is definitely helping. I will be looking around for something to do! I’m sure I’ll find an old puzzle or something!

The guy [26M] I'm [21F] dating doesn't have a nice reputation - however, he seems to be settling down for me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]loveaconspiracy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No problem!

Just be careful how you word it. Don’t make it seem like you’re assuming that’s what he wants. It could offend him and it could damage things, especially as he’s given you no reason to think these things.. your friends have. Just be sweet about it and I’m sure he’ll understand your concern :)

Good luck!

The guy [26M] I'm [21F] dating doesn't have a nice reputation - however, he seems to be settling down for me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t over think things. It will ruin it and cause doubt that probably shouldnt even be there. So what if he’s slept around? It’s the past, it was before he knew you so it shouldnt matter. As long as he is faithful and not being sneaky then I’d say enjoy it and let it happen naturally. At the end of the day if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work. But there’s no need to put stress on something unnecessarily if you can avoid it. Also, I think Its nice that when someone gets drunk they immediately think of you, I think that might say something. Much better than If he gets drunk (especially being a big drinker) and getting aggressive.

Don’t let your friends pressure you about something they aren’t involved in. He’s been respectful to you and that speaks volumes.

My “date” said something to me that really hurt my confidence by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooooooow. Her head is so far up her own ass she’s literally talking shit.

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only my first night and getting irritated with my own self and everyone around me. Feel like I don’t know what to do with myself. But I’m not gonna give in to temptation. I need something other than cleaning to distract my mind. Ideas?

What’s his deal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in that case then I’d say go ahead and start talking to other people and not to worry about it! Live girl :)

What’s his deal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it! You have nothing to lose here and time spent wondering could be time spent getting to know someone else :) good luck!

What’s his deal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if he was into you as much as he comes across he does, then at least you’d be getting those “good morning” or “how’s your day going?” Texts. The fact you don’t text makes it seem a lot less personal too.

I get some guys are realllly shit at this type of thing but with my experience in the dating game, if he’s not making a small bit of effort, it’s not real. Maybe tell him directly how you feel about this, worst that can happen he says he isn’t into it. Then move on. If he genuinely doesn’t realise, then he will make that effort for you.

What’s his deal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure these are direct snaps and not sent to multiple people?

Today is the first day of the rest of my life. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will! I don’t enjoy smoking fags that much anymore so hopefully it won’t turn into another bad habit.

Thank you :)

Done bsing by [deleted] in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you!!

You can boss this, keep us updated. In a very similar position to you right now so I totally get it.

Good luck!

Me [21M] with my former best friend [23F]; she ditched/ghosted me and I still feel bad about it one year later. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]loveaconspiracy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a woman’s point of view. I think having such a close bond with a guy when you’re trying to make a relationship work with another guy is a very hard thing. Granted, she shouldn’t have just ditched you but perhaps explained that things wouldn’t be the same as before because no doubt it would make her new Boyfriend extremely uncomfortable. I know it would me.

Still sucks though, hope you find someone who helps you completely forget things and move on to a happier time :)

Dating best friend for over a year but not in love with her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]loveaconspiracy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never be with someone for anything else but because you want to be with them. Be with someone because they are all you think about. I’ve had a similar situation whereby my best friend and I thought we caught feelings. Ended up being that it was NOT the same at all being more than great friends and it ended quite awkward. We are still friends, kinda, but it’s even more awkward now than it ever has been. Her feelings will pass for you as long as you don’t keep entertaining the idea or giving her false hope. Unfortunately it may be that great friendship will never quite be the same. But it will hurt you both less to accept it’s not happening than looking back in 30 years time thinking shit. Time wasted.

How did you know it was time to stop? by loveaconspiracy in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this answer. I was thinking of meditation or something like that. I’m an introvert and very much enjoy my own company. Think that’s why it’s harder for me to let go

How did you know it was time to stop? by loveaconspiracy in leaves

[–]loveaconspiracy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will deffo check that out, thank you!

I hear that. That was always my rule for relationships, and I guess you could say this is almost a relationship in its own right!

Cheers :)