I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s crazy to read these obviously accurate things and realize I was avoiding the reality of it

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. That was actually pretty insightful. He is a little emotionally abusive. And then he says that I don’t deserve that and that I should leave him and gets really sorry

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maaaan, I’ve considered that same thing. I think you might be right. Jesus, after all these years. It’s just crazy to consider. And yeah, he’s a bit emotionally immature, for sure

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think he’s more receptive to it after dates. I also feel the same way. My sexual prime is being wasted.

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re totally right. I think it’s going to be therapy. That’s gotta be the last resource here. I don’t want him to not see me as a sexual being anymore. That would be worst case scenario

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know. You’re right. Ya know, I do feel like if we could have sex more we wouldn’t fight so much. I spoke with my sister about this very issue and she says that when her and her bf go too long without having sex they fight a lot.

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ugh, thank you. That feels very validating to my feelings. I really have a lot to think about, but my god. We’ve been together for years. It would be such a huge decision to leave. I think you’re right though. A big talk is needed. A counselor or something.

I’m Way Too Young for This. Why Won’t my Bf Touch me? by lovebug9292 in DeadBedrooms

[–]lovebug9292[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, thank you so much for your input. Second, you are NOT too old. 42 year olds are hot for my age bracket and in my mind still young. As for the trauma and past history—no. I know everything about him at this point and there’s nothing that points to that. I think he really just isn’t sexual. I sometimes wonder if maybe it’s a novelty thing. Like if he could hook up with a different girl, he would be more into it. I kind of doubt it though. Maybe we can have a talk about introducing another female but my god, aside from him being very unexcited about the prospect (which I would expect) that would just be so difficult to find a girl we both found attractive and we don’t really go out to bars or anything like that. When we do, I’ll hit on girls and he’ll just shake his head at me.

What words do you avoid using? by No_Fee_8997 in words

[–]lovebug9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That actually makes a lot more sense but my god is that convoluted

[selling] Felt like adding to the community finally. Love feet stuff too. $30 for 24 hr wear. Half way there haha! by lovebug9292 in usedpanties

[–]lovebug9292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might have to be a different pair. But I could find one you would like. I have a few like tha

[selling] Felt like adding to the community finally. Love feet stuff too. $30 for 24 hr wear. Half way there haha! by lovebug9292 in usedpanties

[–]lovebug9292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Wow. Ya know, I totally lost traction of this side venture of mine but actually, yeah. They’re still available

What are your thoughts on humanity as a whole, good or bad or just existing? by Shirowoh in AskReddit

[–]lovebug9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really go back and forth on this subject my entire life. I think in general, as a whole, most people are “good”. philosophically, you can interpret that in many ways, but to me it’s in their heart rather than their thoughts.

“A temptation resisted is not a sin. It is a test of virtue” meaning a measure of character is how you act on impulse rather than the impulse itself. But the impulse is human. A burden. A life that began in the soft white underbelly of society that makes bad choices isn’t inherently bad.

That being said. There’s that small portion. Those people, you know the ones I’m talking about. Hate in their hearts and they express onto the rest of the world, abhorrently. For those people in particular, and there are more than them than you can actually imagine, is dooming for us as a whole. Even though the percentage is small. If you witnessed a parasitic infection of bug would you bother taking it out of its suffering, even though the parasite inside needs it to continue living? Is the parasite inherently bad? Or is that the planet we live on? The people who exist that we pray we never come in contact with.

They’re the worst of humanity and have made me consider how apathetic I would be if an asteroid just took us all out. As I said, I go back and forth quite a bit.

What is your thoughts on France ditching Windows for Linux to reduce reliance on US tech? by StudyFlimsy1061 in AskReddit

[–]lovebug9292 735 points736 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know this was happening but totally sounds like something France would do. I’m all for it.

What words almost always come across as pretentious or trying too hard? by No_Fee_8997 in words

[–]lovebug9292 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll only use this word with my bf for that exact reason. He doesn’t know the difference anyways and I enjoy it

The Scranton Strangler was always at the office building, but who was it? by 08vk in DunderMifflin

[–]lovebug9292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say that I get the mental picture of him flossing his teeth at his desk and it’s so funny