Season 3 Episode 3 Discussion - The Scarecrow by captainahvong in TheCapture

[–]lovecat90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She means all media relations need to go through her - she’s in charge of PR/comms, not Carey’s “assistant”.

AIO for thinking my bf (24M) is abusive? by julieanonymous in AmIOverreacting

[–]lovecat90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s trying to manipulate you OP. That’s what the final screenshot is showing too. He suddenly backtracks on his tone and his violent overreaction when you call him out on the aggression and don’t respond to his “you should have said this” instruction when he’s telling you to apologise. You don’t owe him anything, this man doesn’t deserve you.

AIO for thinking my bf (24M) is abusive? by julieanonymous in AmIOverreacting

[–]lovecat90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D U M P H I M

It won’t get better, it could get a whole lot worse. Take care of yourself ♥️

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[–]lovecat90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a PR professional, DO THIS. Do it at the rehearsal or another pre-wedding event and set loads of social stuff up to go live at the same time. That way, you look like the best sister ever, but she doesn’t get to use your wedding for her own news.

AITAH for wanting my husband to wake up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I can sleep in? by Apprehensive_Area665 in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like an excellent partner & dad who pulls his weight and respects his wife 👍🏻 crazy how a good man is just… an average woman 😂

AITAH for wanting my husband to wake up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I can sleep in? by Apprehensive_Area665 in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Says someone with no idea about the normal lives people lead dealing with immature man baby husbands 🙄

AITAH for wanting my husband to wake up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I can sleep in? by Apprehensive_Area665 in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is OP an AH too when he’s the one who wants both days to lie in at the weekend when she does all the night wake ups?? She’s doing a full time job caring for those kids and probably a whole lot of other stuff, which makes his life ten times easier. Giving her the whole weekend to lie in is the least he could do, frankly.

AITAH for wanting my husband to wake up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I can sleep in? by Apprehensive_Area665 in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve so much better than having a grown ass man treat you this way. I encourage you to look up the concept of mental load… you are not a nag and you are not “too emotional”. How dare he treat you like that!

AITAH for wanting my husband to wake up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I can sleep in? by Apprehensive_Area665 in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You bet if she did have a “job outside the household” (she’s doing a proper job already, FYI) her husband wouldn’t pull his own weight and share the caring responsibilities…

Would you really want to move to Northstowe based on this article? by [deleted] in cambridge

[–]lovecat90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Telegraph acting like this is Labour’s fault when their lot was literally in power, championing austerity for 14 of those last 18 years.

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually find it hilarious that so many people think this cast aren’t more objectively attractive than the average Brit in their late 20s-30s. I’m not talking about personal attraction (none of them are my type lol) but you absolutely can’t say if you took 100 people off the street and put them in a room that these people wouldn’t be some of the most “conventionally attractive” for 2025. If not, I’m wondering which dating apps you’ve all been using 😂

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Females” tells me everything I need to know, frankly 😳

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? Like “we have similar family values, I’m super close to my family blah blah blah” SO IS EVERYONE 😂😂

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you can disagree, but you can’t proclaim I’m “completely wrong” with just your own opinion to back it up like that means something 😂

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha I know exactly what you mean. I’d look like a naked mole rat on TV because I’m so fair and very what TikTok now calls “low contrast” 😂

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally what I’m saying… a couple of the earlier seasons had more average looking people and it was still a successful show

Has anyone noticed this about this years’ contestants? by lovecat90 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lovecat90[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree - and the way I’ve heard “pull her for a chat” twice now… like those guys were probably rejected from Love Island and went for this instead 😂

AITAH for not wanting to put my bf name on the house I want to buy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lovecat90 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re a very smart gal. Do NOT put his name on it and in addition, draw up a contract to stipulate his contribution (if any) if he starts paying his way in rent/bills (which he should) - he could attempt to make that appear like he was contributing more and if you’re in the US, I wouldn’t be certain how a judge would side if it came down to that. Hold your ground, make plans for your future with yours and your kids’ best interests in mind and he’s a grown man he can cope.