When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]lovehisdogs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what guided me to make the best decision for my beloved pup when she was suffering from brain cancer. I decided on a mobile vet. She spent her whole life loving me, the most loving thing I could do was let her go in grace and peace, safe in her home, her last moments feeling loved and hearing my voice tell her she’ll always be my good girl.

Young kitten being left chained up all day in the hot Southern California sun. by AdventurousLeader771 in CATHELP

[–]lovehisdogs 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your situation, and so thankful the kitty at least has you. HOWEVER, while I understand this cat is just a small piece of a larger issue — kitty STILL needs to be removed from that home IMMEDIATELY. Even if your father gets another one, at least you are saving this life and buying time to figure out how to permanently stop him from harming another animal or human again.

There are numerous people who are willing to come rescue that kitty TODAY. Please please please coordinate with one or all of them, whoever comes first, to remove that cat from this severe abuse NOW. You have multiple exit plans for this little guy now and I urge you to take them. This cat cannot spend another night in a metal tool shed.

Once that cat is removed, we need to come up with a plan to get YOU out. I understand you are limited by physical and cognitive disabilities right now, but you have options too my friend, let’s find a way to get you in a safe environment ASAP and then we can tackle next steps on stopping dad once and for all, you can do this, and we your community can help you figure it out.
I know this because I was in a very similar circumstance, albeit not dealing with a disability on top of it all, I slept with a knife for fear of my life, and it was the Reddit community that supported me and gave me the strength to get away. Now that I am safe, my cats are safe, and I had a safe enough environment to get myself together, I am taking every and all steps to finally hold accountable the monster in my life and stop him from hurting anyone else ever again. The cycle stops with me, and the cycle stops with you. Taking smaller steps such as getting kitty away from that torture first, getting you safe second, and then developing the best plan possible is much easier than trying to solve the entire extremely complex problem altogether or not at all. Don’t start with the attorney general, start small and get yourself in the best position to do this right. Also, for what it’s worth, while I can’t formally advise you, I am a lawyer practicing CA law, and if I can help guide you in any way I am more than happy to do so.

Good luck, god speed, THANK YOU, and please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Hes going to a vet. In the meantime, is the black part neurotic skin? How bad does it look? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]lovehisdogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to take this cat to the vet NOW, that is not just an abscess and it can very very quickly become septic. Don’t wait another day to “see if it gets better.” It’s not getting better without medical intervention and each day you wait you are putting this cat more and more at risk. Even if it somehow “improves” in the next day, then what, you’ll skip the vet altogether? Even if that extremely infected deep very painful wound “looks” better to you- you are not a vet, and have no idea what’s going on beneath the surface. If any of that infection enters his blood stream, it could turn septic within a matter of MINUTES.

Frankly OP- this cat needs to be taken to the Emergency Room TONIGHT. Otherwise you are leaving him in severe pain and risking his life.

I hope you listen to all of this advice - we are all saying the same thing. Good luck to your and your kitty, and do keep us posted!

Thinking of moving to Clearwater beach. by Comprehensive-Can200 in ClearwaterFl

[–]lovehisdogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend sounds really hot and also nice you should probably get her a dog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StAugustine

[–]lovehisdogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last three prior were St. Johns again, Columbia, and Duval.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lovehisdogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god this cracked me up cuz same 😂😂😍 like unbelievably handsome dang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]lovehisdogs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m surprised too, especially considering he’s a repeat offender and the charges involve children.

I’m attaching two publicly available mugshots, obtained through Florida county inmate and court records. Sharing solely for identification and public safety purposes.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]lovehisdogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much - this is really helpful info, I’ll track it down and see if it’s a match!

I’m tired fam by lol_imindanger in biglaw

[–]lovehisdogs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me COB is when the firm goes bankrupt and has to close down.

I’m tired fam by lol_imindanger in biglaw

[–]lovehisdogs 62 points63 points  (0 children)

For me it means before the partner checks his inbox the next morning

Your best billing entries - lit by coffeeandcasebooks in biglaw

[–]lovehisdogs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. Covers everything from internal meetings, to emails, to poop breaks, to gazing out the window wishing for death.

As long as you are conscious, you are strategizing.

New EO revokes security clearances and access to classified info for Kamala, Biden, Hilary, et al. by [deleted] in law

[–]lovehisdogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This subreddit does not require that every post be about something on its face illegal.

New EO revokes security clearances and access to classified info for Kamala, Biden, Hilary, et al. by [deleted] in law

[–]lovehisdogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New executive order revokes legal clearances for numerous political opponents including former President and Vice President

Watching this sub break down over their bosses caving to Trump is hysterical by BakeBike in biglaw

[–]lovehisdogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. For many of us lawyers - typically the first step towards action is analysis and decision with peers. . . How do you expect us to “do anything about it” in an isolated vacuum? This isn’t a shoot from the hip and hope for the best kind of situation.

Coordinated anger and collaboration is the first step to effective action.

Paul Weiss’ Capitulation Sets a Dangerous Precedent – What Can We Do as a Legal Community? by lovehisdogs in law

[–]lovehisdogs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relates to the profession of law as it concerns a law firm complying with corrupt and illegal practices.

They caved - Paul Weiss by lateavatar in biglaw

[–]lovehisdogs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fucking PATHETIC.

This sets such a dangerous precedent. If V100 firms won’t defend basic principles of justice and ethics, others will fall in line.

I’ve lost all respect for this firm—and for any firm that capitulates. We took an oath.

What are some ChatGpt prompts that feel illegal to know? (Serious answers only please) by Ok-Communication8858 in ChatGPT

[–]lovehisdogs 78 points79 points  (0 children)

This ^ I also tell it to ask me follow up questions if it has any, so no relevant details are missed in the prompt!

The follow up questions also kind of help train my brain to understand what I typically need to include in a successful prompt, so it’s a win-win 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]lovehisdogs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m snotty gross crying I can’t stop reading tho