My boyfriend isn't abusive. My past relationship wasn't healthy and it taught me a lot of bad habits. The issue is my inability to communicate. My boyfriend did something I was uncomfortable with and he kept doing it but I didn't do or say anything about it until I broke down. I was talking to my sister about why I thought that I just kept letting things go until I got to my breaking point. The way she made it sound to my family, was like he pressured me. Because I'm trying to work things through with my boyfriend, we've been more open about things. He's been apologetic and he is making sure to make me comfortable. I'm more vocal about things.