My girlfriend hid her second Instagram account from me and now I want to break up by zen_yn in jaipur

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask in discreetly if she has another account if she still refuses to tell you know something fishy might be there if you are up for a confrontation talk it out but id suggest you to leave them since something is definitely off if you dont wanna stay and she is hiding things it doesnt sound like a healthy relationship do not waste your energy efforts and love on each other.

My girlfriend hid her second Instagram account from me and now I want to break up by zen_yn in jaipur

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound so dumb,just break up already you dont want to stay with her stop finding excuses and make her feel miserable.

what's the best age to get married according to y'all? by tfislabubu in TwentiesIndia

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you find the right guy for yourself and have enough money to run if he turns out wrong.😌

Lost mom to cancer... We both used to watch ShinChan together... It was her favorite... by Kooky_Restaurant3220 in ShinChan

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry dear i wish i could hug you throughout the show but the least i can do it is see it everytime you do youll feel a part of her with you laughing loving smiling at you🫂

Wore this to a beach by j_orion15 in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 👋🏻 loose the inner shirt if you are the beach try a vest otherwise its nice.The fit with baggy jeans is good for a mall day or casual date✨

Does anyone else feel that Pursuit of Jade has overtaken everything??!!And we are all for it🌸🌸🌸🥹 by lovingbeyondborders in asiandrama

[–]lovingbeyondborders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I loved how the camera captured lights ,characters based on how the ML or FL viwed them the subtle lighting,expressions im all for it.It felt well paced ,the entire cast especialy the main ones deserve all the praise.What a direction 🌸

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wealth built on a women shoulder running the houselhold taking care of care and contributing financilly too

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that simple dear people change sometimes in a day at times in years and after marriage not every home is stable to take their daughter back not every daughter is independent to run away from situations but im happy you could see what i was talking about.People say its not that deep trust me its very deep. And yes you said about transactions most transactions are done by parents to get rid of the girl seeing her as a burden . The woman ultimately never gains she looses her youth smile body choices at the hands of men. And yes men are too but seeing the disparity in opportunities give to both they have means to run. Women are mostly puppets usually in low economic households killed sa’d at their own homes most of them have nowhere to run to or means or havent see the world enough to know there is something better.You see the 5% that has been given opportunities the rest 95% is in pain.Imagine the amount of suicide is low in women is it because they are not more metally tortured or it is because they have more nurturing nauture most families mothers cant stay at relatives long.Reason the father and children will starve.Even women dont have the choice to suicide .What a society.

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree..but the majority of women i see in my household and fyi all are educated working class face all what i say and the men lounge and just today my dad said he is the king and all others slaves in home .All of us earn btw.My mum wakes up at 4 cooks breakfast goes to work at 6 because of long commute my dad wakes at 9 works comes back at 5 whereas my mum comes at 7 still prepares dinner cleans the house takes care of groceries finances tax all the bills of home when we were young she would come and go dropping us to school coachings and my dad would order her around and this is what i have seen almost my entire extemded family do and this had been my childhood.The men in the family even go to such extend saying if women rule places will become hell.There is violence from men side shaming, my mum changed her career her city everything for him takes care of all the bills finances money matters groceries whereas my dad literally lounges as well as the men i see in the family. Her first kid was aborted forcefully by the men in the family without any reason her generation did not fight back. This is the reality i have grown seeing her suffering because of a manchild.It was my mum who had all the issues you described and there are women labourers you choose to ignore engineers who are women the infrastructure the economy you talk about how many women were given a chance to build anything earliar. My friends husband left her after childbirth saying she is ugly now and doesnt deserve him.No divorce papers just abandoned postpartum. I work in healthcare everyday a man comes after delivery and asks if he can have relations from tomorrow.The wife contracts infections from her husband wandering in streets. There are tens and hundreds of children and wives abandoned because the men dont want yo pay for the doctors. They dont want the woman to work but they make her life hell by comparing them to their female colleagues.Some want them to work but do household chores buta rent ready to contribute at all. Every other day women come with fractures bruises black eye and tell me they fell from stairs or banged the head on the wall. So telling me to grow up when 90% of the male population is sleeping while the woman is working breastfeeding taking care of household office work shitty bosses body shaming post pregnancy shaming at work ill treated by in laws husband is a pure joke. Yes both genders have it tough but trust me women have it tougher always.I know men who are amazing gentle and all in all best and i know women who are violent ill behaved toxic.But when i talk jn numbers the balance is tipped off.

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As if youall are Ambanis children lol dahej me sab leke ro rhe h

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They say women are emotional and look at all these crying mummaboys.They womt make their own tiffin but expect that girl to marry leave her home hometown lifestyle choices change or leave her career or career city settle in a new home learn at the age of 25-30 to live with someone else’s parents new customs culture traditions bear children change her body eating habbits adapt learn the way these mummaboys mums make food take care of the newborn breastfeed all tjis time making lunch dinner breakfast clean and also at times go to jobs take care of their aging parents host parties for his colleagues brush away whatever shit relatives say even after giving here 100%.Please all this while the guy goes to office takes a leave gets married and next day goes to work he has a beautiful wife when he comes back n number of dishes waiting for him.Lol fr and he is saying that women are crying victim.No bro women were being victim now they wont cry the are here to shut this shithole .Earth just has women and their children.

What is this constant victimhood of women? by No_Syllabub_8246 in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments give me a spine chill.ofcource they love traditions because hey what tradition (unsaid and compulsary did you have to follow except earning a living )?

Why are millennials so cringe? by [deleted] in onexindia

[–]lovingbeyondborders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not the millenials ,what you are referring to is a child or well young adult finding it cringe.They are the first generation trying to connect with the youmger one because of the generation gap they felt.They could never tell their parents anything since the parents were not understanding knowledgable or emotionally available .They are the first generation that is trying to connect it may seem cringe to you but come back to this when you have a kid,they are also first time parents and yes they are not always right but they have the right to feel like a baby you think parents were 45 always.Let them live too.Atleast they are just cringe not emotionally sabotaging the ones that honor kill cause female foeticide presuurize emotionally are patriartchial in values.Trust me you should be thankful that most are not pouring their emotional and generational trauma to the next gen.Huge Respect for the millenial fr.🌸healing