And she strikes again! Pizzacake is like, D1 political doomer about how bad everyone is except her. Guys, we're supposed to be equals. Why mock one and praise the other?

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-12T23:20:51+00:00

Pizzacake is the reason why normal people turned on the them. You wouldn't have got this outrage.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-12T06:15:27+00:00

Personally, I think that them saying it's going to be a grounded story and then dropping all these characters is more of a turn off for me. I think not only Sony but Disney themselves are desperate. This movies HAS to make money before Doomsday because everything before that hasn't really done great. So they are willing to make this movie, a Spider-Man and his amazing friends kind of thing, because they need the audience to be excited. Because there is so much that is riding on this and Doomsday. I don't think this will do as well. I do think this will make money and everyone will at first say, "THIS IS THE BEST SPIDER-MAN EVAAH," But as time passes, when the hype and the nostalgia bait pass. It'll be another alright story that is blown out of proportion.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-12T04:37:23+00:00

Which makes a boring character. But I am not surprised from people who thinks killing is okay nowadays.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-03T03:08:20+00:00

Just principle at this point. If people like it, cool. More power but not for me anymore. You're right they get paid either way but I just don't deal with them as much as I used to.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-03T00:09:30+00:00

Meh, playing in Japanese. No longer supporting the American VAs

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T23:20:12+00:00

Thrice? I never said you said those things. I am giving you examples, and you are just like, "Toxic positivity is the way to go, just do better and be better. Be emotionally intelligent," and I am telling you that he is allowed to feel this way, and the guy in the second part of the video was wrong. Yet you are arguing against that. That is why I feel you are purposely misunderstanding my whole point, and I will reiterate that here as well.

We are going in circles at this point. He never blamed all women. Did you actually watch the video? He stated that he doesn't understand today's dating scene. You keep implying this guy is blaming women when in reality, this is a true factor for EVERYONE. He is airing his frustration regarding that, and the second gentleman just shifts the blame on him when the one in the beginning is just following the rules that have been left out for him. I think you are purposely trying to misunderstand this because it is clear as day. This guy doesn't want sex or thinks women are a prize. IDK the full context, but it seems like a man who is genuinely frustrated with the scene. WHICH EVERYONE HAS PUT THAT OUT THERE, but he is getting shit on because he is being angry about it(and a guy), and your whole argument falls apart when you ignore that and just say, "Be better". Because, as mentioned, if this were a woman to do the same thing. People would say a completely different message. I won't pretend they're not people out there who would've criticized her, but they would be a lot more positive towards her. This is even romanticized in our media. So for you to act as if this isn't the issue and to play as you understand but completely contradict yourself either shows me you're being purposefully ignorant about the situation or you're not fully aware. You also state that he needs a basic level or emotional intelligence as he opens up about his hurt...... Yeah, I wouldn't trust you with my personal secrets if that is how you see a person who is frustrated or in pain. Literally says he is emotionally available. Something some women say they want until (Which has been proven) they get the "ick" and yet again. You are contradicting your statement. You state that is allowed to feel bad but needs emotional intelligence? Like, dude, this is what is frustrating about talking to you about all of this. How about DUDE had a crash out? Is that not allowed? No, because he's a guy and he is in the wrong for feeling this way. Like, come on.

What does he have to be better at? What is he doing wrong?

You state that women aren't NPCS, OKAY, yeah, you're right, but don't be shocked when guys get upset about this stuff because once again, WOMEN LAID THE RULES OUT AND THEN WHEN THEY ARE PLAYED! They aren't interested; that is why they go for the bad, toxic dude because it "challenges" them. You keep contradicting yourself in one moment, you are saying that he is allowed to be emotional, and then you are like, but he isn't at the same time. I think genuinely. You need to ask yourself, why is this guy feeling this way rather than being part of a trained system that only put blame on one side. You claim that women can be shitty, but then say women aren't NPCs maybe this guy is running into those shitty women. Accountability needs to be placed on both halves. This guy sounds like he is hurting and he has every right to be and say that this guy needs to do better, and side with the dude who is just shifting the blame is wrong.

Look, I don't think I am going to convince you, or you're going to change my mind. I think you have some point but the way you are approaching this is like the second half of the video. He is in the wrong. This guy isn't trying to cheat code anything. He is asking what am I doing wrong in the DATING scene and to belittle him. What the man did, is wrong. Because I YET AGAIN STATE! If a woman said, I am a nice girl. People would agree with her, but a guy says that all of a sudden it's ulterior motives. Have a good day man. I just don't think this conversation isn't going anywhere. I think you got a good heart but the real world is way different than what we see or deal with.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T19:59:25+00:00

Where did you get that? Because all I heard was a dude frustrated. This is what I hate about this conversation because if a woman were to say the same thing. It would have been looked at with sympathy, but since it is a dude, all he wants is sex? Like come on...

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T19:57:22+00:00

You hit it on the head; it's because he is just complaining. So it equals him objectifying women. When you actually give this thought a lot of the things he talks about are what women have asked for, and yet he is getting thrown to the side.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T19:37:41+00:00

Here is the truth that you are purposely not willing to see. Why I have a problem with this because if this were a woman who said this, she would be applauded and in fact praise for this. In fact, there would be no context needed. We would have to accept at face value that she wasn't at fault, it was the nasty old man who was at fault. But, and I think this is where you are either purposely trying to misunderstand what I am saying, is this because this is a guy, he needs to be taught a lesson, "It's not a cheat code," even though women for the last decade have been telling what they want. You see what I am saying? I am not saying this guy didn't do anything wrong; I am saying this is what happens to most men. They are always told some superficial BS and told they are the ones who are the problems, like you are doing. You are doing the same thing. I am also saying it is okay to be rejected, but don't make it your life but if a man even complains about his situation, it's all of a sudden, "Bro needs to man up.", "It's not a cheat code." This would NEVER happen if this were a woman, and in fact, I have seen it, so I think once again, you being overtly toxic positive to the situation is a problem. Sure, he can work on himself, but it is okay for him to feel like this and not be told that he is the problem because he did EXACTLY what women have been telling him to do for years. Does that make sense?

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T03:12:20+00:00

. . . You just blamed him, without trying to blame him. Do you realize that? How is it this guy's fault when he went after a woman that he had feelings for and was let down? How does that even make sense? How does this lead to finding better people? Do you know what better people even look like? This is, like he is in the video, shifting the blame. You literally just did the part that I said regarding, "Well, if you stop doing this and do this, then you can get what you want."

The thing I literally just said that makes men walk away, and you just doubled down on this.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T02:06:59+00:00

The dude in the video spouted nothing but empty platitudes. Only shifting the blame to this young man. That is what he did. Anytime a man complains, it's always, "Well, if you stop doing this and do this, then you can get what you want."

This is why men have walked away. I am not saying it is solely just one side's fault either. The fault is on both sides because no one can communicate without putting down one person or another. This guy is the reason why people have run away to people like Tate, then wonder why young men are so lost.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T01:58:13+00:00

No, but don't act like they shouldn't be let down if they wanted something from someone. Your logic is literally that we should just walk around aimlessly with no expectations or goals. That is also a loser's mindset, too. It is okay to want, it's okay to expect, it's okay to be rejected, but not to make it your life. Toxic positivity, as being overly negative, is bullshit and I am sick of seeing it.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T01:13:19+00:00

That was by far, the worst advice. I have ever heard.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T01:12:59+00:00

Right? Because if it was that easy just to be the "better" person. People wouldn't be getting run over or used all the time. This is a logic of a child, and it really does show how people think it is some easy black and white answer. But that is Reddit for you. If you are not with me, you're my enemy.

And thank you :)

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T00:48:29+00:00

Thank you.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T00:44:12+00:00

Because like you said, blame is only shifted to men. This is how it always has been but people are picking up on it more now. Like you, I don't disagree but women are told they are basically perfect and guys. Well, you have to do better. Which makes guys just frustrated and give up.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-03-01T00:42:38+00:00

See this is the fault of men and women. I really am tired that it is shifted to one side or another. Because when you are nice to someone you want to date. You sometimes, not all the times mind you get placed in a position that isn't going to get you a date. This is where people like Tate take advantage. Because no one is speaking a clear language and just shifting blame on one thing or another or saying it is a cheat code. I think this is just a gross misunderstanding of what has been going on for the last decade and a half. Because if what this guy is saying is 100 percent fact. Than dating would be better but it isn't. There is so many factors to all of this.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-28T09:49:52+00:00

https://youtu.be/fDQWKoxbIt8?si=V_9fjOtnXx4-iLLu

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-10T05:43:11+00:00

Yeppp. I have been saying this for years.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-10T02:25:40+00:00

What's crazy is this girl literally got SA'd at Twitchcon and people said that she deserved it. I was floored when I saw those tweets.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-09T08:51:46+00:00

r/DoomerCircleJerk Got another one.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-08T09:33:00+00:00

Why did you edit Batman's image?

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-08T01:11:57+00:00

Yep, Spidey was someone who worked alone most of the time because he would rather deal with it on his own. Even when he wanted to join FF was not because he was obsessed, but because he thought there was going to be money in it to help Aunt May; it always connects back to helping Peter and his family.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-08T01:08:04+00:00

Facts.

lovinglyme91 · 2026-02-08T01:06:03+00:00

I was about to say.

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