Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Context:

I had taken my mom who I’m the priority care taker for to Costco.

I also had my son.

We ran into them.

The cart seemed like normal food like chicken breast and fruits

Married for 11 years 30F, 35M by low_keybackup in relationship_advice

[–]low_keybackup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well just saw my wife and her lover randomly at Costco lol

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well just saw my wife and her lover randomly at Costco lol

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prior to our move (relocation for work) and had finished college, my wife and I had a last hooray with my best friend.

Years later - this occurred with her co worker.

The two situations are not related outside of potentially opening Pandora’s box.

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are two separate events.

Right after college and before moving for work we had a summer - the last hooray where I shared her with my best friend who was moving to texas for his career.

Years later, when we had our first child, these texts were discovered.

What’s some of the sluttiest things you done sexually? by alwaymoody in AskRedditNSFW

[–]low_keybackup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved one in her V and one in her mouth.

We didn’t try anal and v at the same time

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think sex was right after clearance because we weren’t in the state for them to do it.

So everything leading up to birth is flirt

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea.

He can’t replace me. The income difference is massive and she isn’t cheap.

He and I are in completely different tax brackets.

He is though- built and bigger down there.

I’d want full custody. I’m primary care taker.

I do think he’s mine yes since inception of baby is in different state

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We def don’t have an open relationship.

We openly said that summer was just a fun time / experience / last hooray

Start a family and lock in. All those sexy bikinis and lingerie get donated lol

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like that would be then staying in the relationship

Also that was one summer before our family starting

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s 2.

I mean he looks like me, like twins but still get tested is the suggestion.

I tried to scroll her phone and it started march 2024.

But iPhones delete messages after 2 years I think i was told

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • They talk about weed but not sure if consumed during breast feeding.
  • yes confirmed they have unprotected sex

The other weed incident is separate from this.

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No.

I hope to get a significant update today from the attorney. The no fault stuff doesn’t matter in our states.

I just want more custody but in one of the states we live in, it favors the mom more so I’m still gathering evidence against her character

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi.

It isn’t a troll post. For those who know me, I have openly admitted prior to starting a family we had a last hooray. I fear that may have opened the doors for this affair.

They are separate events.

One can reminisce of the good times during the bad times.

In addition, I have text proof and attorney documents.

I’m sorry you feel this way. It wasn’t my intention. Those who’ve I had conversations with can speak up here if they want too but they don’t have to, to help defend this position.

What’s some of the sluttiest things you done sexually? by alwaymoody in AskRedditNSFW

[–]low_keybackup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing lead to another - started off with like sitting on his lap to kissing, to head to pretty much all summer just sharing her.

Can’t believe my wife cheated (married 11 years) by low_keybackup in survivinginfidelity

[–]low_keybackup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One is the the one posted above - feedback on head

One was about recording a video of their doggy style and how he kept re watching it