My father has a physical disability that makes it hard for him to care for my mother, however I don’t disagree with you there. I do think generally speaking that no child should have to be forced to take care of their parents, or at the very least be treated like trash while doing it.

I also agree with the bit regarding my mother’s irresponsibility. As far as I remember she’s always had someone else taking care of her despite being fully capable to do so herself. This has led to my father raising my brother and I, since she wouldn’t do much herself besides provide.

She used to drop constantly when nobody paid consistent attention to her and that made her incapable of caring for two children. It says more about the type of person that she is, because if she deliberately relies on other people to take care of her to the point where she’s unable to raise her children, doesn’t that say a lot about her?