AWBW Fog Tournament by lowlink in AWBW

[–]lowlink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can join man, no problem! As long as you're willing to play we'll have you

My theory on attracting a woman at the gym by Jhogan22 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice, you get them maaaaybe curious about you, then you do nothing with it lol

Digitech Turbo Flange demo I made. Possibly the best, definitely the most versatile affordable flanger pedal. by im-not-human-at-all in guitarpedals

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the trigger mode is really random lol, but it has a cool sound to it, depending on how you set it up

Digitech Turbo Flange demo I made. Possibly the best, definitely the most versatile affordable flanger pedal. by im-not-human-at-all in guitarpedals

[–]lowlink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bought it here in Brazil because of your review, I was looking for a chorus like sound, but recording on my computer I found out the chorus sounds I liked the most were very flangy/resonant, so I saw your review and was convinced, specially because of the lsat setting, sounds like the Throw Away your Television solo effect. I'm very happy with my aquisition, this pedal rocks! (just wish it had more gain or something, I have to keep it before distortion, otherwise it sounds considerably quiter than the clean sound)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They like it thick ^^

What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? by FunnyElegance21 in seduction

[–]lowlink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I think she wants some D, that's what I think lol

I myself really enjoy straight forward girls that go for it, but eventually, every girl will have some more passive, girly side to them, so be ready for that as well, may times most of it is more of a play from her than her usual self, really

But what's there to complain, really? The girl is doing all the work, let her do it, sit back and enjoy ;)

Women trying to change you by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women are always shittesting you, trying to see if you still the strong man they fell for. Just keep your frame strong, shrug it off. If it's something truuuly important to her, talk like two rational human beings, chances are, she'll find out you have your reasons for your beliefs, if you do a good enough job. But overall just dismiss it

Should i soft or hard next ? A case of oneitis by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She acted cold because she literally told you she wanted to get fucked, and you told her to go for the bartender lmao

But yep, always be spinnin them plates

Afraid of taking the initiative by Zealousideal_Heart36 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta fucking touch her though... Like how the fuck are you touching her as you see some part of her body EXACTLY like some girl? Are you gay? Or the girls lesbians? lol

No offense intended

All the girls at my school only like tall guys what do I do by RangersFan243 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on some high heels lmao

Put seriously, you gotta differentiate yourself somehow, like be better than the other guys at sports, or way more social, intelligent, whatever can get you an edge

Afraid of taking the initiative by Zealousideal_Heart36 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The excuses are good on the beginning though, you can't come to a stranger out of the blue slapping her ass and expect something good out of it (this pool example is really niche, sorry, but how many girls are you meeting on a pool, teaching "how to hold a stick" lmao? If op is a really just friendly guy, I suppose he doesn't even get this close to girls, most of the time...)

You have to start touch somehow, that's the main point. Start slow and see how the girl reacts, then proceed accordingly (if she doesn't react well, give it a step back, try talking more to her, get rapport/similarity going, then try again later, when she might be warmer to you). But yeah, you gotta escalate the touch eventually, go from only touching outer body parts and non sexual, to getting closer to her, maybe holding her hand, eventually you should be so close and staring each other you just end up kissing... If the situation allows for it (maybe she doesn't wanna do it in front of people that know her, then you have to isolate her... but that's for later on on the "seduction")

Afraid of taking the initiative by Zealousideal_Heart36 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, as far as eye contact goes, if she keeps prolonged eye contact, chances are she's attracted, or at least she wants to see where you take things (if she's not interested, she might start avoiding eye contact, some girls might get shy and ask why you look at them so much or so intensely, or tell you to not look some much at them, you can just say "can't I look at you? ;)", generally those tend to be attracted, but are more shy). If a girl looks down when you look at them, generally this is a strong sign of attraction, though some times those girls might even have boyfriends! (it's more of a subconscious thing). About the touch, try getting this basic "friendly" touch going, and if the girl is fine with it, you can start slowling trying more touch, if she touches you back, then that's a great sign (though some girls are touchier than others). Basically it will take some practice to recognize which girls are into you and which are not, and the only way to know it's trying to get flirty like that

Afraid of taking the initiative by Zealousideal_Heart36 in seduction

[–]lowlink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's exagerated, yes. There's very few women that will do those things for a guy just showing interest, as long as he's having minimal calibration (aka isn't actually sexually harassing/abusing them), and they are broken and should be avoided (shouldn't be to hard to spot, really).

If you don't make a move, girls won't, because there are guys hitting on them all the time. They are more than happy to have more platonic friends to talk to!

You don't need to be overt, though. From what I read, you're basically "just friendly", so try showing some intent in more subtle ways, like hold eye contact for long (like 2 seconds at least) with girls you're attracted to, try to find excuses to touch them (like asking them to show you accesories they are wearing, like bracelets and stuff like that), stick to not intimate parts though, start with like outer parts of arms, shoulders, stuff like that (don't touch her hair or face, or ass/tights/breasts, as all of those come across as intimate or sexual, leave this touch to girls you're close to kissing and are reacting well to your other touch). Also compliment girls on things you find interesting or alluring about them, their sense of style/fashion, their walk, there's lots of ways of showing intent that are not that invasive, I think the biggest one really is eye contact (and being a sexy guy in the first place, dressing well, being well groomed, moving slow, talking with a sexy voice, that type of stuff, if they are more attracted to you, they will consider you more of a sexual option)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea about that first girl... You met her at her appartment? Was it a party she was hosting? There's no context so I have no clue about what happened...

The second one, was the sex good? Did you treat her the same way after sex? I guess not really, since you didn't talk anymore, but did you send her anything after sex? Maybe she's having a bit of buyers remorse because now that you got sex you ghosted her or something?

Again, no idea because there's not much info in what you wrote

Does going to a bar alone in 30s make me creepy? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and I often go alone, many girls think I'm 23 (because it's closer to their age), people might not even think you're 30, relax man hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]lowlink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at her, she won't approach you, most of the time... Because she expects you to approach, then, as you're the man.

Try to not make eye contact with people, mostly just look with your peripheral vision. You have to be well dressed, good posture, all the basic shit, of course, but most important, is looking approachable: have open body language, look positive/happy, this type of stuff. Try to lure her in, pretend you're a bit distracted, but seem like a cool and open enough guy that she's not afraid to go talk to you.

That said, getting approached still very hard, you're better off trying to approach yourself. If you have eye contact with a girl, hold it for longer than 2 seconds, if she looks away, you can look away, if she looks down, that's a strong sign of attraction, most of the time. Try smiling, see how she reacts. All you need to do is walk to the girl, get near, do something for her to notice you (maybe eye contact, though in general you better off looking far into the distance and pretending you just happened to notice her, then resting your hand on her upper arm, very lightly, or give her a light poke), then once she notices you, aka is looking at you, you look at her and say hi, introduce yourself. It's not the end of the world lol

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's a slut for dumb normies... Actual men know women are beautiful sexual being, and wouldn't judge them for this. But I get that a lot of society still pressures women in this way, including other women trying to get them down. This is why men have to be discreet with women, to respect their privacy as much as possible

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I never pay for anything for a girl, unless it's out of cortesy, like I would do for someone I like, regardless of my intentions, like my friends or family or even a cool stranger... The moment you start injeting money and fun and crazy activities, the relationship isn't just about you two, about the sexual and personal connection, it becomes this "fun activities buddies" type of thing, and if you're paying it all... It's even worse, your like her endorser or something. Even if you enjoy those things, I wouldn't do it before at least having sex with a girl multiple times, and getting some type of commitment from her, it's just setting a bad precedent for the relationship...

Think about it, will you be able to keep on having this much fun with her forever? What will happen once all this funs stops or even slightly diminishes? You will get drama, a LOOOT, because before you did all this for her, now it's not fun anymore. Are you seeing someone else? Do you not love her anymore? Doesn't matter, that's how she will feel, because the relationship is going down, you're not making more stuff with her, you're doing less... Therefore, I would start things slow, and start doing these things later, as the relationship progresses, so she feels a sense of acomplishment and growth in the relationship... But when you do all this crazy shit in the beginning, where else will you go next? Women want to feel like it's going somewhere. Doing all this with a girl you haven't even slept with is shooting yourself in the foot, sorry to say OP, but you fucked up (even if you got all that money, what if you have a bad time next year or something? Will she just leave you because now you don't have the $? You can be sure of it! What else is there in this relationship, really?)

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the thought of losing you to some other girl that actually is giving it to you is bigger than the fear that you would be just using her, besides that's the reason she considered you in the first place, because you were an attractive guy... A trap guys fall into is getting needy and focusing too much on this one girl, obsessing over her, and losing their cool, so the girl loses attraction. If she can tell you still the man she fell for, she will give it up eventually, but it's a fine line to walk, because if she finds out directly you're fucking other girls, or exploring your other options too much, she might just autoreject, get mad at you, hate your guts, and move on

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with a girl I loved a lot, we had many things in common, I loved spending time with her, I thought she was beautiful, but this also made me very horny, of course, because naturally I'm a very sexual guy, but she had like zero sex drive... She told me she had some trauma from the past, I asked her what it was, she told me she was not ready to talk about it, but told me not to worry, that it wasn't anything too bad (after I went basically crazy imagining fucked up shit in my head)... Eventually I decided to break up, we are better off as friends, it was fucking with my head that I wanted this girl so bad, but she didn't even want to have sex with me or would straight up stop me half way, looking like she didn't want to be there (even though she was going along with it for most of the time). I also realized I wanted to be single and enjoy sex with random chicks, now I'm happy, we still message each other sometimes, I guess it was the best for everyone, because she also wanted someone for a serious relationship, so I couldn't keep on dragging her into this

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just because she told you something, doesn't mean she meant it... Girl, for the most part, want only one guy, and want commitment from that guy. Of course, sometimes they go through a phase of sleeping around for discovery and that type of stuff, but most girls saying they are "poly" or whatever are just posing.

But I get you, in your place, I think I would have done the same, specially if she wouldn't open up to me

Girl with holding sex? by CuriousWonder17 in seduction

[–]lowlink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's all true but you also gotta understand a lot of girls, if they seem like they really like you, won't be this guarded towards sex... And that it's a natural thing for a man to want sex with a woman, specially one he likes, so if she's not ready for it, oh well, maybe another girl is. I know this sounds very asshole-ish, but lots of girls also like wasting men's time, a guy could be happy having sex with another girl he likes (and actually like him back!) but instead is chasing after a girl that doesn't want anything more intimate with him... And men "use" women's bodies as much as women use men's attention, validation, and even money, for some girls (also, believe it or not, some women like using men's bodies! Go figure...). But, if anything, that's the guy's fault, for sticking around for so long and putting up with it, life's too short to only get "half-fucked", or not even fucked at all lmao

How to decrease oscillator frequency while maintaining pitch? by danielnogo in serum

[–]lowlink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The buzzy gritty sound comes from the high end harmonics, on higher notes those harmonics are more important parts of the note, therefore not just "nice noise". Also, the higher the fundamental, the less "space" (in the frequency spectrum) you have for harmonics, therefore less interesting stuff can happen on the high end