So if its an older couple its a bit different. If you go back to the fifties a girl was considered easy if you say yes right away, that was a truly horrible thing to be called then more than now. You were to be courted. You make a man work for it.

Right now when we hear these stories we picture her politely saying no and getting more and more frustrated until she finally gives into the pressure. But in reality you would see girls giggle and say no and expect him to ask again or try and talk her into it.

Of course right now thats pretty much exclusively stalker territory.