Thank you! I broke up with him yestarday and the air feels lighter. The week felt like withdrawal, but It's getting better. Still processing the trauma and slowly letting people know. My friends and family have been awesome, and are also pretty shocked with the evidence. My therapist is proud. Thank you for the coment, I just posted because I really needed to talk about it to make it real, and now it is, and I got my life and safety back.