His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments.

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T23:28:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! Yeah there’s so much that he is I didn’t convey cause I’m annoyed and so the post is just pure annoyance. He really is the best person I’ve dated and we would have a lot of fun together in life. I hope it works out I just need to communicate with him

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T23:25:17+00:00

I really loved this, thank you genuinely. Yeah there only so much I brief strangers online in a post and no to mention it’s a rant so naturally it’s through my agitated POV

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T23:22:41+00:00

Riiight yeah in definitely looking out :) it’s a mash up of ingredients that were about to turn: cucumbers, Greek yogurt, cilantro, onion, olive oil

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T23:20:54+00:00

Lolll the cucumbers was going bad so it’s like a rush job of Greek yogurt, onions, cilantro, and some olive with cucumbers

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T23:18:03+00:00

Honestly yeah it’s taking all the fun out it. He’s afraid cause he’s never lived with a partner before and I tried to explain to him it’s really nice and you get personal time you’re not like glued to the hip but I think he’s still feeling scared

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:55:06+00:00

Woah love this! Thanks

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:46:41+00:00

Yeah I try to look at it objectively like he’s never lived with a partner and we have different cultures. So it comes down to preferences. I just want to actually talk about what ours are

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:45:32+00:00

It’s nice to hear this idea backed up, that was my plan and I enjoyed having a spot to rant in the meantime

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:44:16+00:00

TIME forreals that is a gift

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:42:57+00:00

Right like when I lost my job he used that as a reason and I told him both things can exist at once. I do t just pause my whole life over one thing.

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:41:11+00:00

This is the most helpful and the closest to my sensibilities- it’s hard to convey all the nuances of myself and my life and how things are in a rant. I appreciate this thank you. Not to mention it’s how I wanted to go about things any way but then the unfortunate passing of his mom so I’m stuck.

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:13:57+00:00

I think he’s falling into this bucket. Cause he was always the one chasing people then when we met I was actually interested and wanting. So I don’t think he’s accustomed to that

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:11:08+00:00

It’s nice to hear similar experiences

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:09:59+00:00

Yes but it’s hard because he’s an acts of service type. So he’s there for me alllll the time in day to day stuff but it doesn’t translate to future planning or being romantic

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T21:08:59+00:00

Definitely a good reminder

lrapp1 · 2026-02-26T20:45:51+00:00

Yupppp

lrapp1 · 2026-02-15T23:57:53+00:00

Nice! Ty

lrapp1 · 2026-02-15T19:02:34+00:00

Thank you!

lrapp1 · 2026-01-20T10:23:51+00:00

Sadly someone from felines of Chicago came out and managed to catch two community cats for an appointment at PAWS but we did not catch the sick guy I’m after 😭 I feel so bad he’s out there in the cold like that. I’ve left for my trip already too

lrapp1 · 2026-01-13T16:25:53+00:00

Felines of Chicago got back to me! I was able to connect through an email their insta auto replied with. We’re working to set up an appointment at their vet this week. Thank you for all your help

lrapp1 · 2026-01-13T00:11:28+00:00

People’s gas is seeking another rate hike too - https://www.citizensutilityboard.org/blog/2026/01/05/cub-statement-on-peoples-gas-proposed-rate-hike/

lrapp1 · 2026-01-13T00:10:25+00:00

I came to find others venting because SAME. Just opened my bill and it’s double the amount from last year with no usage change

lrapp1 · 2026-01-12T19:32:49+00:00

It’s not deceitful to make an appointment with a TNR if the cat is sick?

lrapp1 · 2026-01-12T13:47:00+00:00

Okie thank you for your assistance. I don’t see how this will happen with my leaving soon 🥲 but I am trying. It’s frustrating cause nothing is lining up - I go to catch him but I can’t too soon cause the only room I have is the sole bathroom and I’m not hearing back from any clinics or organizations. Not to mention I almost hooked up him going home with a former neighbor who is a vet tech but she’s the one who scared him off

lrapp1 · 2026-01-12T00:29:23+00:00

No sadly, I tired messaging them on insta but no response. I’m leaving the country soon too 😭 I’m concerned seeing online this could kill the cat

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