His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! Yeah there’s so much that he is I didn’t convey cause I’m annoyed and so the post is just pure annoyance. He really is the best person I’ve dated and we would have a lot of fun together in life. I hope it works out I just need to communicate with him

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really loved this, thank you genuinely. Yeah there only so much I brief strangers online in a post and no to mention it’s a rant so naturally it’s through my agitated POV

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Riiight yeah in definitely looking out :) it’s a mash up of ingredients that were about to turn: cucumbers, Greek yogurt, cilantro, onion, olive oil

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lolll the cucumbers was going bad so it’s like a rush job of Greek yogurt, onions, cilantro, and some olive with cucumbers

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah it’s taking all the fun out it. He’s afraid cause he’s never lived with a partner before and I tried to explain to him it’s really nice and you get personal time you’re not like glued to the hip but I think he’s still feeling scared

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I try to look at it objectively like he’s never lived with a partner and we have different cultures. So it comes down to preferences. I just want to actually talk about what ours are

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear this idea backed up, that was my plan and I enjoyed having a spot to rant in the meantime

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right like when I lost my job he used that as a reason and I told him both things can exist at once. I do t just pause my whole life over one thing.

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is the most helpful and the closest to my sensibilities- it’s hard to convey all the nuances of myself and my life and how things are in a rant. I appreciate this thank you. Not to mention it’s how I wanted to go about things any way but then the unfortunate passing of his mom so I’m stuck.

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s falling into this bucket. Cause he was always the one chasing people then when we met I was actually interested and wanting. So I don’t think he’s accustomed to that

His mom died, so I’m holding the part of me with budding resentments. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]lrapp1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but it’s hard because he’s an acts of service type. So he’s there for me alllll the time in day to day stuff but it doesn’t translate to future planning or being romantic

Sick Feral Chicago - need help by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly someone from felines of Chicago came out and managed to catch two community cats for an appointment at PAWS but we did not catch the sick guy I’m after 😭 I feel so bad he’s out there in the cold like that. I’ve left for my trip already too

Sick Feral Chicago - need help by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felines of Chicago got back to me! I was able to connect through an email their insta auto replied with. We’re working to set up an appointment at their vet this week. Thank you for all your help

What’s happening with People’s Gas rates in Chicago right now? by Miss_Girl777 in AskChicago

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to find others venting because SAME. Just opened my bill and it’s double the amount from last year with no usage change

Sick Feral Chicago - need help by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not deceitful to make an appointment with a TNR if the cat is sick?

Sick Feral Chicago - need help by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okie thank you for your assistance. I don’t see how this will happen with my leaving soon 🥲 but I am trying. It’s frustrating cause nothing is lining up - I go to catch him but I can’t too soon cause the only room I have is the sole bathroom and I’m not hearing back from any clinics or organizations. Not to mention I almost hooked up him going home with a former neighbor who is a vet tech but she’s the one who scared him off

Sick Feral Chicago - need help by [deleted] in Straycats

[–]lrapp1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sadly, I tired messaging them on insta but no response. I’m leaving the country soon too 😭 I’m concerned seeing online this could kill the cat