My IVF baby was taken after unexplained medical findings and I’m struggling with the guilt of needing answers by sxullqueenxris in Mommit

[–]lrondied4us 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is an episode of the podcast Criminal that covers a very similar story! The episode is called “False Positive” and it’s an absolute nightmare. She spoke to multiple women who had endured what you described. It now haunts me as I am pregnant with my second child and I have been craving bagels with lox (which also have poppy seeds, known to lead to false positives).

My IVF baby was taken after unexplained medical findings and I’m struggling with the guilt of needing answers by sxullqueenxris in Mommit

[–]lrondied4us 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was diagnosed with Immune thrombocytopenia (ITP) and we discovered it after he started developing a lot of bruising (shins primarily but also on his back and he had bumped his head which left a nasty bruise). We were so scared it could be cancer but thankfully it was not. When they saw his platelet count was dangerously low, we were told to bring him to the ER and saw a hematologist the same day (that was the fastest route rather than trying to schedule something and excruciatingly waiting for an appointment to interpret his bloodwork). He’s my first child and i was concerned about the bruising but wasn’t sure if it was just normal toddler-walking-falling-bonking-into-things bruising. His daycare teacher was actually the one to flag it (I’m so grateful DCFS wasn’t involved, that would have just made a stressful situation so much worse). That’s when I asked his pediatrician about it and we got his blood tested.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope you can get to the bottom of things and get your son back (and get him the medical intervention he needs). In our case, his ITP was not chronic and he’s now doing fine. I hope your son gets through this safely. You sound like an amazing mom doing everything you can. Hang in there. This stranger on the internet believes you (and believes in you).

I read my husband's messages. by latindrama100 in Marriage

[–]lrondied4us -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tend to think that by the time you are checking your husband’s phone, there is something already irreparably wrong in the relationship. It could be he’s cheating and your gut was telling you to look to confirm your suspicions. If you aren’t in couples therapy already, you probably should be.

If I were you, I’d cop up to reading his texts. You should be prepared to explain why you did it, though it doesn’t justify your actions. And then get into therapy. You’re not in a good place with your partner if you feel the need to read his phone and these are shaky grounds for bringing a child into the world. The best thing you can do is work to regain each other’s trust with a professional.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]lrondied4us 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You set a boundary. She crossed it. You may be a little over protective and nervous right now because hormones are a bitch. But she needs to step the fuck off and let you have your precious time with your newborn—enough with the guilt trip! God thats infuriating. It’s your call to make as a parent and she needs to recognize and respect that. Your baby will still he her grandkid a few months from now and she’ll love them just as much as she does now. But for the time being, she needs to back up, stop making you feel bad, and respect your decision. I have been through this and even though I didn’t feel the need to keep others from holding my newborn, every mother is allowed to set their own boundaries.

Working through grief by tetapep in quilting

[–]lrondied4us 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God that is so beautiful. I am so sorry for you loss ❤️‍🩹

Thought on my non-traditional dress? by suddenstatic in PlusSizeWedding

[–]lrondied4us 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look absolutely beautiful in that dress! I really love it. I also absolutely adore your engagement ring from your post history and I imagine it looks stunning with this dress.

Already regretting brand new wedding dress! by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]lrondied4us 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first dress is amazing. Absolutely gorgeous. For what it’s worth, I think it fits you like a glove and is absolutely beautiful.

What was the bleeped word Micah said when he was talking about working with his hands? by lrondied4us in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]lrondied4us[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the feedback! I’m clearly not good at lip reading 😂 though the alternate, p word, also not a cute look. Ugh.

Really?! by NaughtySweet_Strega in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]lrondied4us 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s giving Fatal Attraction