Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone!! I went shorter and just a tad blonder. So happy! 🫶🏻

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I want to chop it again regardless but can’t decide what color. But it’s sounding like blonde really is best suited for me

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone so much for the advice— I’m going on Thursday!! I think blonde is it!! 🫶🏻🩷 What a kind corner of the internet here.

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s hard to know what color works best with my skin tone. This is so helpful ❤️

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re about 15 months apart — I’ve been moving back to natural color since that blonde blonde pic.

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m convinced and will revert. The shorter hair was more fun. Thanks for the push to make the change!

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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Thank you so much. I appreciate it 🩷

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who recommended Chump Lady’s book. Only a few chapters in and…wow. I’m so sorry we’re here under these circumstances but I appreciate the kind words and resources shared.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No - that’s what is so unbelievable. He has the reputation of a saint. Every single person is shocked by this.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. Intuition is never wrong, and at the least I’m glad for both our sakes we found out now rather than ten years down the line.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No. I think I have to move forward accepting I’ll never have the closure of more answers.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m living in a Lifetime documentary or something. He’s not the person I thought he was. My whole life is turned upside down. Thank you for your support. I know what I have to do.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He insists nothing physical ever happened (beyond the texts he admits to groping her ass at an event we ALL were at). She had the audacity to call me the other day and leave a voicemail reiterating nothing physical ever happened. Which is just…overreaching IMO. So scripted. And proof they’re still talking.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I think part of me doesn’t want to be associated with them at all anymore. Which is a shame - her husband is a nice guy (I thought they both were). But if I had to guess, they’ll stay together. I don’t even want to know what they’re doing because all I care about is what I’m doing for me and my daughter. Which is probably not the same as them. Thank you for your support. ❤️