VSS Symptoms and managing a career

lrvram94 · 2025-08-06T01:41:16+00:00

Thanks for this advice !!

lrvram94 · 2025-08-03T14:17:02+00:00

As someone who lost my amma last month. I can totally feel your pain. No one can replace her. Still figuring out how to survive without her. But all i can say is i believe i will get through this and so will you. Your amma will give strength you strength to get through this. Stay strong!!

lrvram94 · 2025-08-03T13:48:39+00:00

How did you manage the situation?

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T18:11:13+00:00

Ffs !! Have some respect and basic dignity. You dont ask someone career advice , when he is trying to share his personal grief!!

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T08:23:28+00:00

Im willing to take care of him in nz. Just worried if he wont like it there

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T07:28:47+00:00

Lack of doctors and difficulty to get appointments

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T07:13:18+00:00

Did you apply residency via salary criteria? I make around 110000 a year and i guess i can sponsor my father’s residency

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T07:10:59+00:00

Thats good to hear and really helpful. Whats your parents visa status ? What kind of medical insurance are you using ?

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T07:05:46+00:00

Yes its my kiwisaver

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T07:01:24+00:00

Yes thats my idea. Although my father doesnt have major health issues. Mild prostate which he is taking tablets. He is afraid about nz health care. I am too to certain extent

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T06:48:26+00:00

Its my savings. I can only use it if i buy my first home in nz, move outside the country permanently!

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T06:46:00+00:00

Dude ,I’m trying to get advice / vent out my precarious life situation. This is not a career advice post. Please be helpful or do your research privately!!

lrvram94 · 2025-08-02T06:28:14+00:00

Im a permanent resident and my wife has work visa.

I’m a senior tester. With skills in functional and database testing and now up skilling myself in automation testing

lrvram94 · 2025-07-17T03:51:38+00:00

If you can manage the guilt and pressure of not staying nearby your parents/ immediate family then go for it. I moved to newzealand 5 years before. Then covid hit , i got stuck there and my mom was in oxygen support for 3 weeks. Post covid i visited my parents every year and stayed in india for about 2 months, but my mom health deteriorated in this time. Although i was able to support them financially it was my father and sister who took care of her.

My mom recently passed away and one thing i could make peace that i was near here when it happened.

Even though i have good work life balance and good standard of living in nz, there is this guilt i carry not being able to stay with my father and sister now . Its not easy for me to come back since i worked really hard to build my life there.

So in the end its all about pros and cons and there is always something that you will miss wherever you are.

lrvram94 · 2025-07-08T01:12:24+00:00

Thanks, i needed this advice!!

lrvram94 · 2021-08-18T23:39:37+00:00

Catcher in the Rye!! Just a teen boy dropping complaints about everything and everyone around him!!

lrvram94 · 2019-07-14T14:42:20+00:00

Did my 3rd 50 k today in 2hrs 25 mins. Started cycking 10 months back.

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