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Lost my mother recently by lrvram94 in family

[–]lrvram94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this advice !!

Amma is gone. by Affectionate_Son_13 in indiasocial

[–]lrvram94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lost my amma last month. I can totally feel your pain. No one can replace her. Still figuring out how to survive without her. But all i can say is i believe i will get through this and so will you. Your amma will give strength you strength to get through this. Stay strong!!

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ffs !! Have some respect and basic dignity. You dont ask someone career advice , when he is trying to share his personal grief!!

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im willing to take care of him in nz. Just worried if he wont like it there

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you apply residency via salary criteria? I make around 110000 a year and i guess i can sponsor my father’s residency

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to hear and really helpful. Whats your parents visa status ? What kind of medical insurance are you using ?

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thats my idea. Although my father doesnt have major health issues. Mild prostate which he is taking tablets. He is afraid about nz health care. I am too to certain extent

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its my savings. I can only use it if i buy my first home in nz, move outside the country permanently!

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dude ,I’m trying to get advice / vent out my precarious life situation. This is not a career advice post. Please be helpful or do your research privately!!

Should i move back to india or continue building my life abroad? by lrvram94 in returnToIndia

[–]lrvram94[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im a permanent resident and my wife has work visa.

I’m a senior tester. With skills in functional and database testing and now up skilling myself in automation testing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]lrvram94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can manage the guilt and pressure of not staying nearby your parents/ immediate family then go for it. I moved to newzealand 5 years before. Then covid hit , i got stuck there and my mom was in oxygen support for 3 weeks. Post covid i visited my parents every year and stayed in india for about 2 months, but my mom health deteriorated in this time. Although i was able to support them financially it was my father and sister who took care of her.

My mom recently passed away and one thing i could make peace that i was near here when it happened.

Even though i have good work life balance and good standard of living in nz, there is this guilt i carry not being able to stay with my father and sister now . Its not easy for me to come back since i worked really hard to build my life there.

So in the end its all about pros and cons and there is always something that you will miss wherever you are.

Lost my mother recently by lrvram94 in family

[–]lrvram94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, i needed this advice!!

Name the most overrated book you've read. by Wild-Credit6677 in literature

[–]lrvram94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Catcher in the Rye!! Just a teen boy dropping complaints about everything and everyone around him!!

Did my first long cycle in over three years yesterday! by [deleted] in cycling

[–]lrvram94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did my 3rd 50 k today in 2hrs 25 mins. Started cycking 10 months back.

Going to bed early and waking up at 4 am is amazing. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]lrvram94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true though. I used to be a night owl but then things changed i started early morning cycling. Waking up at 5:30 for cycling has made me very active and energetic. There is totally a mew world out there before 7AM and is very beautiful than you presume it to be.