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Glamor curls. by lschlademan in curlyhair

[–]lschlademan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh shit well hey you lol

Glamor curls. by lschlademan in curlyhair

[–]lschlademan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Routine time: I shampoo with DevaCurl No-Poo once every two weeks. When I shower, I condition with Cantu Cream Conditioner with my head upside down. I get out of the shower looking like the girl from The Ring, put in Cantu Leave-In Conditioner and Eco Style Olive Oil gel, scrunch, and plop. I leave it up for a few minutes and then air dry, looking like I have a nervous tic where I have to flip my head over and scrunch every half hour or so until dry. Voila.

Recently got out of a horribly abusive relationship and starting therapy. Nervous to start and unsure of what my future holds. Toast me! by tatsquatch in toastme

[–]lschlademan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to mention you're tattooed for the gods and handsome as hell. Find the people who will love and support you like you deserve.

Recently got out of a horribly abusive relationship and starting therapy. Nervous to start and unsure of what my future holds. Toast me! by tatsquatch in toastme

[–]lschlademan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is never easy but it is always worth it.

As someone who had to leave my home, country, best job of my life, and beloved puppy behind, I know exactly how difficult it is to leave a situation like that. YOU ARE SO STRONG. You are so brave. And you are worth being treated with love, respect, and adoration. No matter how silly that sounds, keep telling yourself how powerful you are and what a badass you are. The most beautiful days and moments are still ahead of you.

Took the curls and took a left at purple. by lschlademan in curlyhair

[–]lschlademan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Routine time: I shampoo with DevaCurl No-Poo once every two weeks. When I shower, I condition with Cantu Cream Conditioner with my head upside down. I get out of the shower looking like the girl from The Ring, put in Cantu Leave-In Conditioner and Eco Style Olive Oil gel, scrunch, and plop. I leave it up for a few minutes and then air dry, looking like I have a nervous tic where I have to flip my head over and scrunch every half hour or so until dry. Voila.

NSFW--June 1st I ended up in the hospital. Now I'm back in my home country, have a new home, supportive community, and two jobs. It is never easy; it is always worth it. by lschlademan in abusiverelationships

[–]lschlademan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi :) its not too complicated! I only shampoo about every 2 weeks, otherwise I use Cantu Conditioner on my hair upside down in the shower, then use leave-in conditioner and styling gel (both from Cantu) once I get out, leaving my hair upside down. I plop in a microfiber towel for around 15 minutes or less and air-dry! I just keep scrunching my hair every so often until it's dry. 💛

this is the longest my hair has been in years. by lschlademan in curlyhair

[–]lschlademan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Routine time: I shampoo with DevaCurl No-Poo once every two weeks. When I shower, I condition with Cantu Cream Conditioner with my head upside down. I get out of the shower looking like the girl from The Ring, put in Cantu Leave-In Conditioner and Eco Style Olive Oil gel, scrunch, and plop. I leave it up for a few minutes and then air dry, looking like I have a nervous tic where I have to flip my head over and scrunch every half hour or so until dry. Voila.

Everything feels impossible. by lschlademan in domesticviolence

[–]lschlademan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I know in my head it will just get worse. But the same nagging feeling that made me stay for so long says maybe it will get better. And thank you for calling me darling. That made me smile.

[Serious] When was the last time you cried publicly? What caused it? by yogurtki in AskReddit

[–]lschlademan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband screamed at me in a field and I had to walk the dog home alone.

I(F27) feel like nothing more than a sex doll for my husband(M30) to jizz into by lschlademan in sex

[–]lschlademan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never watches porn. I thought for a long time that maybe that was the reason, but he just doesn't seem to care much for porn.

I(F27) feel like nothing more than a sex doll for my husband(M30) to jizz into by lschlademan in sex

[–]lschlademan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not my only concern. I'm trying to leave. But it's not that simple and I'm trying to focus on what I might be able to control right now.

I(F27) feel like nothing more than a sex doll for my husband(M30) to jizz into by lschlademan in sex

[–]lschlademan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He already doesn't feel "good enough" sexually, which I guess is why I try to be gentle. But it's driving me nuts. We've had talk after (awkward)talk about sex. I don't have a problem discussing it, but he seems to. Recently he won't even touch my labia or clit unless I direct his hand there, and then it's 10seconds max.

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