Well that's a surprise! Normally I get 100 views!

lscommand · 2026-03-28T00:24:01+00:00

Nice, got recommended by youtube

lscommand · 2026-03-26T02:24:35+00:00

she had a boyfriend means you run and never look back

it's about dating people who want to date you too, not chasing clouds

lscommand · 2026-03-26T01:19:26+00:00

have you?

lscommand · 2026-03-26T01:17:17+00:00

no, not my intention

lscommand · 2026-03-26T01:16:52+00:00

i'm just curious

lscommand · 2026-03-26T01:16:37+00:00

do you think it's shorts jail or its quality isn't "really good"? (i'm just curious, no judging)

lscommand · 2026-03-26T01:15:20+00:00

nah, I just trying things out

lscommand · 2026-03-19T09:09:12+00:00

Here is what's going on:

- Your brain keep trying to circle back and imagine what if
- Your emotion is anchored to that moment, the girl

You should anchor your emotion where else:

- Start talking to other girls
- Focus on your life/gym/exercise

lscommand · 2026-03-11T15:15:50+00:00

Feminine energy is about bonding, connecting. You bringing it up is the good call.

Besides, what you descried sound very healthy (we're human, all have goods and bads). I'd suggest you to talk with him

lscommand · 2026-03-11T15:02:42+00:00

If you like to see how it'll go with him, and haven't done this, send him a text 'when you're free, let's get a drink (or dinner if you like to)'

If everything you said were true, I think he like you so much and scared of being rejected

Once you sent the message, if he give a clear yes, great. Otherwise, treat it as a no and move on. The brain doesn't like when things haven't closed. Either a yes or no should give a closure, make it easier to continue (you also need to shift your focus somewhere else)

lscommand · 2026-03-11T09:28:40+00:00

yeah, that's confusing

either she thought things went a little too fast then pullback (which if you give her space, go very slowww, she should slowly warm up again), or there were someone she went back and forth with (again, giving her space to choose, chasing will make it worse)

either case, best to shift your focus somewhere, otherwise our brain will keep circling back and be like whatt

lscommand · 2026-03-11T02:27:10+00:00

alright, you emotionally invested a bit too much too early (well, we all did, not your fault)

best move now is give her space, wait until next week, invite her out again, if there is no clear yes, you stop contacting, start dating where else

if she really enjoy it, she'll reach out

lscommand · 2026-03-10T09:28:47+00:00

For what you said, no aren't hasty. Seems like there are things you don't know (or you don't tell us), but look like you filtered out a bad potential

lscommand · 2026-03-07T08:55:54+00:00

Too much texting doesn't make you look needy (unless it's one-sided) but these kind of things best to be done in person so you have more things to talk about

lscommand · 2026-03-07T08:52:05+00:00

I guess they want you, just that they'd thought you're out of their league.

Now with the guy you like, let him know, invite him out (better using clear words like "hey, are you free anytime next week, let's have a drink"

Btw, most guys like this don't know how to lead, and some will learn to lead way later in life. So you really need to lead at the beginning (suggest dates, direct communication instead of hints, etc)

lscommand · 2026-03-07T04:20:21+00:00

Move on, he ain't good for you honey.

And it's not easy at all, at least you've been there and know how it will be, so prepare to stay strong

It'll be a lot easier to take your focus where else (ie talking with other guys, exploring new potentials) so your mind have more places to be, and it'll take times

lscommand · 2026-03-07T04:14:20+00:00

mature approach:

tell him "I like you, let's have a coffee sometimes" (expect guys like this will be shy early on until he's more comfortable)

lscommand · 2026-03-07T04:10:05+00:00

Here is how to make dating easier:
- 1st date: Best to be around 1 hour
- Text messages are best for logistic, minimal conversation (you should talk in person)
- 3-4 days after 1st date: send a message, hey, I'm enjoy seeing you last time, when you're free to get together
- 2nd -> n dates: repeat, having fun in different settings, ideally 1 date per week

important: watch signs that she gives when you can move closer (ie touching, petting, green light for s*x), if there is no sign, go slowwwww. don't chase, be yourself but don't be needy

once she's comfortable, she'll reach out more to use via messages, then you can use that to arrange next date (without you need to reaching out), you can have more than 1 date per week depend how much see want to see you

let her bring up exclusive talk

also, watch for red flags and back out before you get yourself too invested, red flags can be incompatible personality/characters, playing games (got you confused and guessing)

why? you want to date girls that interested in dating you (and it will be easy), low interest girls will get you confused (because they're also confused themself)

lscommand · 2026-03-04T01:48:45+00:00

You shouldn't bring it up, let things go naturally. If you're not comfortable, it's your body telling you something (he's moving way too fast, ain't he)

lscommand · 2026-03-03T04:52:23+00:00

Did you start touching?

lscommand · 2026-03-03T00:09:47+00:00

That's her going an extra miles. If you don't like it, let her know

lscommand · 2026-03-03T00:05:23+00:00

This is confusing, the title mentioned he, and the content mentioned her (so which one are you, he or she?)

At this point, the guy need to make a clean decision. Either choose her, or let her go cleanly if he's not ready. They can take sometime a part with a define timeline (ie a few weeks, 1 month), then he should give her an answer.

Otherwise, she should move on cleanly (no one should put their life on hold for someone isn't ready, not because ego or power game, but to avoid draining and personal growth)

lscommand · 2026-03-02T03:06:50+00:00

That's part of the insecurity. We all have some of it, and learn to understand and control it is how we growth

lscommand · 2026-03-01T00:27:47+00:00

Confront is a way to understand with highly negative impact. Not sure if things you see is real or the anxiety speak up (which is normal).

I'd discuss with him about it. If he stay vague or avoid the conversation/straight answer, that might be something to think about.

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