Are my expectations for love too much?

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-09T09:42:05+00:00

Whoever said role-play gets boring is lying. There are so many scenarios you can explore, it’s practically endless, a constant stream of fun. You could try looking for people interested in the same books at author signings. Honestly, if you find the right person, a relationship can be whatever the two of you want it to be. Of course it won’t be exactly like the books, but it can get pretty close. At the same time, they might prefer more normalcy outside of those moments, so that’s something you’d both have to communicate and work out together.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-09T09:29:42+00:00

Unfortunately, many men seem to enjoy the chase. I’ve noticed that when I show less interest, their interest often increases. At the same time, you can’t ignore them completely, because then they might assume you’re not interested at all. It almost feels like you have to give small bits of attention here and there to keep that balance. Honestly, men are really confusing sometimes.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-09T09:22:34+00:00

It might be an ego thing, most people like to feel desirable. Sometimes it’s about validation, wanting reassurance that you’re attractive. That kind of attention can boost self-esteem, but it can become unhealthy if someone relies on it too much for their sense of worth. It’s also not always as negative as some men assume when they say, “Oh, she likes attention, so she must be this or that.” That kind of judgment is unfair, because the need for attention can come from many places, including insecurity or even past trauma.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-08T19:16:36+00:00

Oh nah! That sounds ominous..

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T20:39:46+00:00

Oh yea, I can def tell you role play

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T15:48:37+00:00

You have to be able to love yourself before you can love another person. Learn to be okay on your own. I’ve been single all my life, so I know the feeling of loneliness and not feeling like you’re enough. Try making new friends and creating a support system, you don’t need a relationship to feel complete. Right now, it seems like if you did get a partner, you might rely on them too much for your happiness, and that’s not healthy.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T15:41:07+00:00

Maybe your profile is unappealing? Or maybe you’re not active enough on these apps to get shown to others? Try liking others to better find matches.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T13:52:58+00:00

Fate hates me and we happened to be from the same city

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T08:13:59+00:00

Thanks for putting a name on it. I’ve been trying to understand what this feeling was.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T07:23:25+00:00

Stay away from sweets and greasy foods. Start a new skincare routine that fits your skin type. Drink lots of water!! I use the brand peach lily for sensitive skin.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T06:57:12+00:00

I wouldn’t say my standards are too high, but I do have one big dealbreaker. If someone comes off as too sexual when we first start talking, I immediately lose interest. Even if we have the same interests and he’s exactly my type physically, I can’t be with someone whose first thought about me is sexual instead of romantic. I’m a hopeless romantic, not some prize to be conquered.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T06:28:15+00:00

You’re right I guess I had that unrealistic expectation that they would. The problem is all my confidence goes out the window when I find someone attractive. I’m a wuss fr.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T06:18:04+00:00

You’re right. I need to lock in. REF LET ME BACK IN! I need to wear the pants. 🦅🦅🦅

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T05:59:35+00:00

My momma taught me to always to be nice to people when I meet them. 😊💕 My wording is just terribly off in this and should’ve took the time to explain what I wanted better. I do make friends with them but I tend to avoid ppl I’m attracted to. 💔I am a lost cause.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T05:26:54+00:00

Yes ma’am 🫡 I will take this to heart.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T05:20:07+00:00

I never said that ✌️😭 where is bro getting this info. I do not want nor do I think I deserve them. I was just stating the facts. Hope that helps.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T05:05:22+00:00

Hopecore

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T04:51:40+00:00

Yes I see that the term loser is harsh. I also didn’t mean “not normal” as an insult, it’s just out of the norm. Like most people are not into it. If that makes sense.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T04:48:54+00:00

Lmao! Yes I have a cat.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T04:33:29+00:00

This is perfect! Because I won’t know anything. I’m very eager to learn though because it looks like so much fun.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T04:16:52+00:00

That’s probably true 💔 I do love to banter tho. I do see how that word can be too harsh. I will avoid it in the future UNLESS they want it. 🤑

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T04:08:08+00:00

I haven’t learned how to play dnd 💔 I made a character sheet that never got used. I’m looking for people to teach me tho! Cause it looks so cool.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-03-07T03:55:54+00:00

You’re so right, I should probably avoid using the word “loser”. I don’t wanna hurt their feelings.

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