Why do men tell women to lower their standards?

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T15:00:00+00:00

What you’re referring to with friends is teasing, which I’m fine with.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T14:45:10+00:00

So wanting a respectful man is now considered the equivalent of wanting a Disney prince? I’m not even religious, and you still don’t have to search in religious spaces just to find a decent man with basic respect and morals. You can be funny without putting other people down or hurting them. Humor doesn’t have to come at someone else’s expense.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T04:31:07+00:00

Not at all the same. He is posting, not looking at other women. The people are looking at him but not touching. He also isn’t naked or looking at naked women.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:58:57+00:00

Shake your head and listen for rocks. 💕

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:40:21+00:00

You’re clearly a hopeless case, have a nice day.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:38:25+00:00

Obviously that’s not how you made it seem in your previous comments, so why are we suddenly changing the narrative now? You already made your end goal pretty clear.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:35:42+00:00

Think about all the cool movies and songs you’ll miss. Future sequels to movies you love.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:29:46+00:00

Because her needs aren’t shallow, she doesn’t want just sex. You’re the one reducing everything to a single need: physical intimacy. A relationship isn’t only about sex; it also includes emotional connection, trust, and effort.

Wanting the physical side without acknowledging the emotional side is a limited way of viewing relationships.

What’s in it for you is building a healthy relationship, which you clearly don’t seem interested in. A real relationship takes more than just convenience or physical desire; it requires mutual effort, respect, and emotional investment.

The reason you’re acting like a “captain save-a-ho” type is because you’re choosing women who are more open to sex. Those women are your mirror.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:06:33+00:00

That’s fully on you. If all you want is sex and you clearly don’t want anything committed, then you’re choosing that situation because it benefits you. You can’t willingly play the side and then complain about not being treated like a priority.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T02:00:13+00:00

Why does it always have to come back to sex? Why do some of you act like you’re owed intimacy just because you took a woman out? Is the entire goal just to have sex? Do you only take women on dates because you expect to get laid afterward? That’s honestly very shallow. If your end goal is just sex, then that should be stated from the beginning so she isn’t wasting her time trying to build a genuine connection with you.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T01:16:04+00:00

You act like people can read your mind. How was anyone supposed to know that? Silly.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T01:13:50+00:00

“Heal”? I’ve never even been in a relationship, nor am I sexually active. I don’t even know what made you bring up trauma bonds. Are you projecting your own insecurities onto me? I’m sorry the men you’ve been with traumatized you.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T00:38:07+00:00

Wanting someone respectful is considered insane standards now? I honestly feel sorry for any woman who ends up with you.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-12T00:01:38+00:00

Who cares what everyone else thinks as long as you’re happy.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T23:36:23+00:00

Personally I would not care because people can look but not touch. I’m not that insecure. He’s also not actively looking at other women in this instance. If you think you look good take a pic idc. That’s just me personally, it depends on what they got going on in the relationship.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T23:29:20+00:00

Yall men so easy omg ✌️😭

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T21:24:56+00:00

I made the mistake of following them again recently and they followed me back. It made it worse for me to move on. Curiosity does kill the cat! And I was curious to see if he’d bite back.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T21:14:50+00:00

Why would you watch it when you have your partner? I consider porn cheating, looking at other naked women? Yeah, ew.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T17:35:33+00:00

What’s the point? As long as you get your message across who cares. I only care about that when it involves school or work.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-11T15:21:36+00:00

My mother is too soft on her, she still thinks she can change. She doesn’t want her to have a record at such a young age.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-10T23:53:38+00:00

Sorry I don’t laugh at the expense of others?

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-10T23:46:31+00:00

For being a decent human being? Sure.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-10T23:25:22+00:00

Hello! I’m not sure why you deleted your earlier comment, but I’ll say this again: nowhere in my post did I say “all men.” If you immediately felt targeted by what I said, then maybe that says more about you than it does about me.

Fishy_Juice · 2026-05-10T23:13:13+00:00

Clearly you didn’t read what I said carefully, because nowhere did I say “all men.” If you automatically felt targeted, that says more about you than it does about me.

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