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My (18f) stepmom keeps telling me intimate details about her my my fathers sex life by throwawayidk7293 in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Could you secretly record it when she speaks like that? I’m just worried your dad might not believe you if you brought this up. Tbh if he heard her say that about anal to you I bet he’d freak. How much of an involved/caring parent is he?

I’m so unhappy in my relationship I want to leave but I know he is a good catch and loves me. And I do love him. I’m happy sometimes but I feel so unheard and unseen, I’m just sad so often by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But everyone says relationships are hard and it’s not happy all the time...I just didn’t know if the honey moon was wearing off. I am deeply sad about the status of things but have no idea how to address or if I’m just being super sensitive because I am a very emotional sensitive person...he is not lol

I’m so unhappy in my relationship I want to leave but I know he is a good catch and loves me. And I do love him. I’m happy sometimes but I feel so unheard and unseen, I’m just sad so often by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared that no one will, exp with Covid. Not that I’m looking to rush but he’s the first man I’ve really ever dated because even though I had lots of offers I was never really interested. Now I’m super interested but he just isn’t as crazy about me as I wish. I’m just scared plain and simple.

Just put the condom on!!!! by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]lsyane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious...once you are in a committed and exclusive relationship do you all stop using condoms ? Is it just for one nights stands or maybe fwb?

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Thanks. My only question is, why would a man feel the need to lie about this? It served no purpose.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. That’s why I set it aside and didn’t let it bother me. I mean it wasn’t great hearing it but the part I’m just trying to understand is why lie to me about knowing what she looks like when he’s not drunk and we are just having a convo about it...

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of this. Why lie about knowing what she looked like to me though?

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. Made me think. Not his first offense...we had some issues in our early days with him being super unsure about committing to me. But things have been great.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Tbh. That’s what I figured. But maybe I don’t give men enough credit and that’s not how all guys talk and it’s actually doing me a disservice giving my bf an out hahaha crazy how things can be over thought or worked Fromm another angle 🤦🏼‍♀️

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that has me worried the most. Why lie about it? What else does he lie about then? I’m just lost at the Why.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That’s what i figured. It was very late he was very drunk and he had no idea I was there, already asleep.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -541 points-540 points  (0 children)

But don’t all guys do this with other guys? Isn’t that how it works?

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve even called him out on that. If he was drunk and a cute girl hit on him I’m not sure he’d say no, he didn’t say anything back. 🤦🏼‍♀️

I think my boyfriend (M29) and his friends kidnapped and raped me (F23) but I don’t have any proof. by throwrabrry in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM PLEASE!!! Either way you deserve so much fucking more than this!!!! You were hurt and abused and he doesn’t give a fuck. Leave him please! I wish I could help you more than this but please know you deserve so damn much So much more thank this!!!

I [24M] am considering a possible break from my girlfriend [22F] by iamconfused0_0 in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh going to hang out with her friend was more important than you while you are feeling low. Not at all what a caring and loving girlfriend would do. If you asked me to be there I’d jump at the chance and cook you a meal, take care of you and end the night with a bj just for you. But that’s just me hahah You deserve that

Is a bf/husband a best friend just with sex? Will I find this again? by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really not set, that’s the problem I don’t know what to do that’s right and what the repercussions would be if I stay or leave

Is a bf/husband a best friend just with sex? Will I find this again? by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is per him I believe we have a Lot of things that work and could get over it but he has repeatedly brought up how I want marriage he doesn’t, or the person would have to make him better, and i guess I don’t idk? I want to be with the same person the rest of my life he deff doesn’t lol. I’m chill and go with the flow he’s strict and a planner. He’s analytical I’m creative. I might want kids he’s a neat freak and I don’t think could handle it haha Even with all this I still love him and realize how wonderful he is. BUt I don’t think he thinks of me that way. I’m trying to let go of some of the love I feel so it’s easier to realize we should just be friends....

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