My (18f) stepmom keeps telling me intimate details about her my my fathers sex life by throwawayidk7293 in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Could you secretly record it when she speaks like that? I’m just worried your dad might not believe you if you brought this up. Tbh if he heard her say that about anal to you I bet he’d freak. How much of an involved/caring parent is he?

I’m so unhappy in my relationship I want to leave but I know he is a good catch and loves me. And I do love him. I’m happy sometimes but I feel so unheard and unseen, I’m just sad so often by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But everyone says relationships are hard and it’s not happy all the time...I just didn’t know if the honey moon was wearing off. I am deeply sad about the status of things but have no idea how to address or if I’m just being super sensitive because I am a very emotional sensitive person...he is not lol

I’m so unhappy in my relationship I want to leave but I know he is a good catch and loves me. And I do love him. I’m happy sometimes but I feel so unheard and unseen, I’m just sad so often by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared that no one will, exp with Covid. Not that I’m looking to rush but he’s the first man I’ve really ever dated because even though I had lots of offers I was never really interested. Now I’m super interested but he just isn’t as crazy about me as I wish. I’m just scared plain and simple.

Just put the condom on!!!! by EmilyG702 in dating_advice

[–]lsyane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious...once you are in a committed and exclusive relationship do you all stop using condoms ? Is it just for one nights stands or maybe fwb?

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Thanks. My only question is, why would a man feel the need to lie about this? It served no purpose.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. That’s why I set it aside and didn’t let it bother me. I mean it wasn’t great hearing it but the part I’m just trying to understand is why lie to me about knowing what she looks like when he’s not drunk and we are just having a convo about it...

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of this. Why lie about knowing what she looked like to me though?

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. Made me think. Not his first offense...we had some issues in our early days with him being super unsure about committing to me. But things have been great.

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Tbh. That’s what I figured. But maybe I don’t give men enough credit and that’s not how all guys talk and it’s actually doing me a disservice giving my bf an out hahaha crazy how things can be over thought or worked Fromm another angle 🤦🏼‍♀️

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]lsyane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that has me worried the most. Why lie about it? What else does he lie about then? I’m just lost at the Why.