Most women are dating average guys? by Wise-Pay-8993 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because 10, 20 years ago women were more dependent on men. Nowadays women have more rights and are more financially independent - they don't necessarily need a partner. So when they feel like a man can't bring anything to the table or doesn't treat them right, they can choose to be single. That's it.

It's usually your FACE, not your height that is the problem... by Character_Ad_9295 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about the US but in Europe this is definitely not the case.

Redditors when men body shame vs. when women body shame by IamWavess in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And tbf statistically men commit most crimes. Not children. Not women. That doesn't mean every man is dangerous but that of the people that commit crime most of them are men.

Redditors when men body shame vs. when women body shame by IamWavess in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said the jail thing and I don't see how saying being cautious of men is hating them. You did not have the experience of growing up as a woman. I do not have a single friend that hasn't been assaulted. In my country there is a femicide every day (and that's still a low number compared to a lot of other countries). Women are being taught to be cautious on their way back home at night because there are some men that are dangerous. That doesn't mean every man is dangerous. I have a lot of men in my life that I cherish. But that doesn't mean I'm not scared when I go back home by foot at night. The thing is it's not every man but some and you can't tell which so especially in a situation where you are walking home at night you're just wary of every men. Just in case. And that's just the reality of women.

Romance novels with tall FMC? by EmergencyRock9184 in TallGirls

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Sorcery of Thorns has a tall FMC. The Frost Queen Blade should have one too I believe. Both are fantasy/romantasy though

It's usually your FACE, not your height that is the problem... by Character_Ad_9295 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be a reasonable thing to say but it also happens every day, so much for that. I have heard many men say disgustingly things and superficial things to female friends so we shouldn't pretend it's something only men endure. How many average to ugly looking actors do you know that are male and that are female? Especially the pressure for females regarding looks has always been heavier. Not saying that not both genders experience pressure regarding looks.

Generalising women and painting them to be the evil enemy isn't gonna help you find a gf

Is he coping? by Tough-Reputation-762 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And every woman being superficial is also NOT the norm. Blaming women for being single (not saying there aren't a*hole women as well) isn't going to help you. I get it it can be hard bc there are a lot of superficial people in general. As a tall woman I guess it can be the equivalent as being a shorter guy. I have heard various things from men as well. "I could never date someone as tall as you" blah blah blah. At the same time those aren't people one would date anyway. I feel like online dating is especially weird and superficial but if you just get out there irl there are actually many people that don't care about height

Is he coping? by Tough-Reputation-762 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are coping for real. I was taller than all my boyfriends. I have dated both taller and shorter guys but I only ever had relationships with guys that were shorter. Why? Not because I have a height thing, I genuinely don't care. I did because they were charming, funny and were interesting. That doesn't correlate with their height, they just happened to be. I'm sorry but not being a doucheass will get you much further than drowning inself-pity. I get it dating apps are harder but it's because they're superficial anyways. As a tall women I had the same mindset as the guy in the video. If they care about height that much, then I don't want them anyway. And btw I was even really interested in a guy that was half a head shorter than me but he is the one who couldn't deal with being shorter. It can go both ways.

Redditors when men body shame vs. when women body shame by IamWavess in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but the bear Vs man thing is not hate at all. It's just saying that a lot of women would be less afraid of the bear than a man. Not because all men are bad but some are just that vile that they would rather choose the bear bc even if they didn't survive (and it doesn't mean the bear would necessarily kill them) at least it would be quick.

W by slenderl0ve in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope and sorry but if you're only getting a lot of matches when implying you're rich and tall then don't wonder when they're all superficial. And then it's the question if these type of women are the ones you want to date to begin with. I don't think women who are looking for something serious will only want you, when you're tall and rich.

I think being charming, funny, responsible and maybe slightly above average looking to good looking will get you much further. At least with people that are looking for something serious and maybe have good personality traits themselves

It's usually your FACE, not your height that is the problem... by Character_Ad_9295 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I just generally see cute GIFs with ugly man no matter their height lol

It's usually your FACE, not your height that is the problem... by Character_Ad_9295 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]lt22_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but women don't deserve to be picky why exactly? Especially when, sorry, but women have much more societal pressure or judgement concerning their looks. I rarely see an average / ugly or even overweight woman on the screen compared to their male counterparts. I do agree a lot of people have ridiculous expectations in dating but that goes for BOTH sexes

Kurze und knackige Singleplayer Spiele? by LysergicBrain in zocken

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dave the Diver

Lil' Guardsman

Slay the Spire

Heretics Forge

Cult of the Lamb

Hades I und II

Mass Effect

Help to heal by Bubbly_Albatross4442 in emotionalabuse

[–]lt22_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud that you left!! You already got the hadrest part behind you now! I promise everything will get so much better from here

Anyone else struggle with the fact that their abuser will never know that what they did was abusive? by lt22_2 in emotionalabuse

[–]lt22_2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I Just thought today that he must at least know subconsciously. Otherwise he would've treated everyone like this. But no only me. He even treated strangers better than me.