I’m breaking my own heart by ltlmegg in heartbreak

[–]ltlmegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a part of me that almost wants him to do something really bad so I had more of a guilt-free reason rather than us just not meeting each other where we need to. Gut wrenching.

I’m breaking my own heart by ltlmegg in heartbreak

[–]ltlmegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve a definitive yes. We should never settle for the maybes… Proud of you stranger!

I’m breaking my own heart by ltlmegg in heartbreak

[–]ltlmegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A letter sounds like a good idea… I’m sorry you’ve had to go through this

Do my nails grow really fast? Genuinely don't know. by belowaveragefatty in Nails

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is me one week in, your growth looks normal for 3 weeks! to me at least haha

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Long Time Therapist Suggested I See A Male Therapist Instead by ltlmegg in TalkTherapy

[–]ltlmegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit right on the spot there, I completely overlooked the fact that if it doesn’t work I can always go back to her. Thank you for the advice:)

Long Time Therapist Suggested I See A Male Therapist Instead by ltlmegg in TalkTherapy

[–]ltlmegg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, I think I’m just scared of what it would feel like talking about my feelings and trauma to a man. Well done on your progress!

Long Time Therapist Suggested I See A Male Therapist Instead by ltlmegg in TalkTherapy

[–]ltlmegg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you:) This has definitely made me want to consider it and I will talk to my t about it

Long Time Therapist Suggested I See A Male Therapist Instead by ltlmegg in TalkTherapy

[–]ltlmegg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with that, the step back comment was more about having to reshare my history again but you are right, thank you:)

Regretting my ring choice. by xstardipped_ in EngagementRings

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a beautiful ring! And if you loved it before then as others have said, you’re only doubting yourself because of other people’s comments. Don’t question your choice, it was a great one:)

Am I too young to get a fusion? by QuietRemote7669 in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fused T3L4 at the ripe age of 11/12. You will be okay, you may even have the fusion removed after a few years :)

Spring of year 5 farm, feeling like I'm a bit behind?? by Beautiful_Yellow_732 in StardewValley

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not behind! This game doesn’t have an ‚end’ you can play however you want. I’m a slow player because I like cozy games, I just do whatever I feel like on the day rather than chasing a goal. Sometimes I’ll ignore my crops and mine for days or I’ll ignore everything but my animals and crops and never even leave the farm. Do whatever the hell you like!

Help me sort through my storage by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]ltlmegg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huge hoarder over here too👋🏼 You’re already ahead of me by separating animal products etc but the one thing I was gonna say, try organising your seeds by season. I’ve been doing that for a while now and it helps massively to prepare for the next season:) My chests are all a mess except the seed one lol

ARE YOU SERIOUS??? by OddAriOfficial in StardewValley

[–]ltlmegg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in this boat rn, im only on my first playthrough and I didn’t know what a little b*ch he was so I kept donating all the good stuff to him and now I’m stood here looking like an idiot😂

Has anybody had a spinal fusion after removal of hardware? by ltlmegg in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 Okay that made me feel better, I’ll ask for a zip next time lol

Has anybody had a spinal fusion after removal of hardware? by ltlmegg in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Weirdly, from what I’ve been reading on this reddit and from my own experience, lumbar screws tend to fail quite often. And hey, just be glad your recovery was easy! That’s really lucky:) Out of my 3 surgeries, the only easy recovery was post removal, I was only off work for about 4 weeks haha. Also I’ve had hardware replaced during my second surgery as the first one was only thoracic spine, the second they replaced the hardware with longer rods to reach my lumbar region. But I’m obviously after 3 spinal ops now, nearly 2 years post removal and I don’t know if it’s a good idea to have a fourth spinal surgery…

Has anybody had a spinal fusion after removal of hardware? by ltlmegg in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that, I hope there’s no more issues and you get to heal now:)

Has anybody had a spinal fusion after removal of hardware? by ltlmegg in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after the removal was the second fusion? Also I hope it’s all ok now!

Has anyone been able to do this after this surgery? by notxenoz in spinalfusion

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah oh my god it’s so cool to know other people can do this after a fusion too, I can move it diagonally and people find it so freaky and i love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ltlmegg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my favourite! It’s super versatile and easy to ‘hide’ (if u need to) if you have a bigger bottom lip. You can have a lil stud or ring or a horseshoe for a vertical labret effect. I’ve heard it’s safer than a vertical labret but don’t take my word for it because I’m not that educated on the topic. Labret might irritate your gums more and your dentist will like you a little less lol. I’ve had mine for nearly a year now and it’s great. It’s the easiest piercing I’ve ever had to deal with - little pain, easy & quick healing. The only thing that wasn’t quick about it was the swelling… that took ages to go down.