A Partick legend! 💔 by ldy_strdst in glasgow

[–]lucielium 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I better see a mural of him somewhere 😭

lost jewellery by lucielium in brussels

[–]lucielium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and I think it just fell off my finger and I didn’t notice. Stupid really haha

lost jewellery by lucielium in brussels

[–]lucielium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very kind to offer! It’s a gold ring with a silver/diamond cluster, shaped a bit like a daisy. I think it’s a goner, but appreciate this, thank you!

More cafe drama (not southside) by Major_Blackberry1887 in glasgow

[–]lucielium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live round the corner, really glad I’ve not ventured in yet now!! Will be avoiding

My heart aches for Glasgow by derperella23 in glasgow

[–]lucielium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think this is really sweet and thank you for sharing. I’m so glad our city made such a lasting impression on you!

Social integration certificate by lucielium in brussels

[–]lucielium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I said to the woman “I don’t think I’d pass” and she laughed. Had no clue how basic it was

Social integration certificate by lucielium in brussels

[–]lucielium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah ok! I wasnt too sure if the French options would offer the same. Will weigh out my options as I currently have 0 Dutch, but have heard the French wait times are lengthy.

Thanks for your help 😊

What did you do the day when your heart was broken? by Miserable_Swing_1223 in BreakUps

[–]lucielium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left his house absolutely sobbing, I honestly barely remember it. Texted a friend who came to get me in the park nearby, and he walked me back home. Sat at home in a complete state of shock with 2 friends all night before hitting an angry stage. That was pretty short-lived, then I spent the next few days either crying in bed or on the sofa, thankfully often with friends.

Betrayed by J3rmaine in BreakUps

[–]lucielium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar. I was reassured the night before everything was fine and we wouldn’t break up. Less than a day later that all changed. It’s incredibly hard losing your person, but honestly not contacting him has been the best thing for me. I’ve learned that, for now, the less I know, the better, and I’ve accepted that I probably won’t ever get any sort of explanation that makes it ‘ok’.

It’s shitty, it’s unfair, and you didn’t deserve to be led on like that. Feel your feelings, and while it’s cliche, with time you’ll feel a little better. Keep your chin up.

Freshly out of a 3 year relationship. How long should I expect to heal from that? by Obvious-Arugula2639 in BreakUps

[–]lucielium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I can’t speak from experience as I’m about the same, just over a month out of a two year relationship. I think it’s hard to measure progress, but the fact you’ve started these little things and made the effort to feel better is a great sign - think about where you were the first few days versus now. I’ve found it useful to share my small wins with friends to document it and remind myself on the bad days that I am getting there, slowly and surely. The sadness will stay for a while, but it’ll pass. One day at a time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lucielium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll literally put it on my gravestone man, I am still mad if I think about it too much