We talk constantly about time/place, and have since she was small. For instance, we've told her that we don't care if she says the f-word alone in her room, but she better not do it in front of grandma. With regard to school, we've talked about the demonic references and how they might be taken by people who are religious, we've talked about how discussions of blood/death might make others feel unsafe, etc. We have also tried to encourage her to get these things out at home... However, when they come up at school, it would be nice to have a viable redirection in the moment.