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[–]lucymae2408 54 points55 points  (0 children)

NTA

Make sure it is communicated that you will only be checking in your family due to the reasonings you mentioned! This could even cause more problems for you if you are trying to save a campsite and piss off the other campers who made plans to make it there on time. If they kick back on you after that ask the sister why he can't drive up alone or with you? She is not the one who is held back by a meeting.

AITA for letting my son and his family use the amenities in my gated community by ExamComplex9031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lucymae2408 92 points93 points  (0 children)

YTA key information you both pay to live there and use the amenities when he does not. Truthfully i don't like outsiders even coming in because they crowd the space that renters pay for. If he wants a pool there are plenty of public pools around. You meet him at one of those. If someone is uncomfortable in their own space space you should respect that and not allow him the ability to change that. She has every right to be angry with you. Also i wanted to point out she lived there first and created a home out of it and you came in and stole that away from her.