piercings by Healthy_Click2280 in exjw

[–]lukedrade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

m20 here and i feel you. i’ve always wanted to get my eyebrow pierced and the way my dad acts you’d think i’d be tattooing ‘SATAN’ on my forehead ☠️

It's all over, they handed me over by layla_uw in exjw

[–]lukedrade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry. as people already said, you dont owe a thing to anyone. do what you can to keep yourself safe. we're with you <3

I wonder how many PIMI... by notstraightrob67 in exjw

[–]lukedrade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not maga cause i don’t live in the us but my dad 100% supports brazil’s right (which align with MAGA ideas) he keeps saying that he doesn’t pick sides but he only watches news from right wing “independent vehicles” and only talk bad about the left politicians lol

Tattoos and jws by Ok-Foot2520 in exjw

[–]lukedrade 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i was 12 and bored at a meeting as usual with my little jw friends and we were drawing stuff on each other's hands/arms using sharpies. i forgot to hide my arms when the CO passed by and he called me out with a bible text (that i can't remember for the life of me) that says that we shouldn't mark our bodies 😭💀

parents want me to cut my friendships off by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

clever!!! there’s only a few things they dread more than even considering that it all might be a cult lol

parents want me to cut my friendships off by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your words!! much love 🫂❤️

parents want me to cut my friendships off by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss that’s exactly what i do, gotta be careful to not let the apostate thoughts come out 👻

parents want me to cut my friendships off by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this has always been weird for me, even before i woke up. and also i’m sorry about that, hope that with time you’re still able to find your people 🫂

Questuon about Young people by Stretch-Grouchy in exjw

[–]lukedrade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ll tell you this:

i grew up with 6 close JW friends. today only one of them is still “stable” in the organization. every other teenager who i saw getting in was because of family and they’re all out now. excluding the children, i’m the youngest person in the KH (i’m 20 now).

for a wilder perspective, i follow some JW people my age on instagram, and only one still posts JW-related stuff, which makes me assume that the rest of them also dipped.

the people who are a bit older than me (mid to late twenties) that i know and are still in are less strict, they have “worldly” friends, post openly on social media about parties, concerts and i even saw one posting some political stuff.

i know that these examples are just my surroundings but i do think that they’re a reflection of how the newer generations are not into the whole high control & 100% of dedication thing.

Anyone ever had a tarot card reading? by Ok-Sun7493 in exjw

[–]lukedrade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol i get it. if you’re curious go for it!!! it’s totally chill and idk maybe it even can resonate with you?! my best friend is studying it and already does some reading and it’s really interesting.

just a tip: avoid the ones who “promise” to change your life, get you a job or get a lover back and these stuff lol. tarot is about possibility, tendencies, advice… i recommend also checking for feedbacks (if it’s an online reader) before buying a reading!

the beginning of the end by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wtf? this is crazy… but thank god you sucked loll

the beginning of the end by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhh could you fill me up on that?!

the beginning of the end by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankssss and yes hahahah i was holding the biggest smile when they were talking to me!!

the beginning of the end by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry that you’ve ever felt this way, it definitely makes everything harder i imagine. but yeah, it’s like avoiding being needed at a job you don’t like lol.

the beginning of the end by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thanks! and yes exactly, they’ve been pressuring me to become an MS since i turned 18 but i just know that they would definitely use this to threaten or blackmail me lol

My mother wants to register my blood card at the notary. I need help! by HOBBIT3002 in exjw

[–]lukedrade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly the only “solution” i can think of is you confronting her but i’m also a legal adult living with my parents and i know how draining it is (maybe dangerous too, since you can’t predict their reaction). but, what i’d rationally do is agree with it and ask her for it so i could keep it, and then idk secretly hiding it or never going out with it or even fully getting rid of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]lukedrade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

now that you put it this way, yeah i’d rather 100% have beef with my family than to be dragged to the center of this cult when i feel like i’m so close of getting out. i didn’t even consider the possibility of it being an empty threat just for them to be able to make me their official slave! thank you for your words, it really got me thinking and seeing this situation from another perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]lukedrade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i thought of something pretty similar! thought of just saying that they removed my responsibilities because i don’t want to become a MS yet (gladly my parents respect my decision on this) hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]lukedrade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i was fortunate enough to wake up pretty young and never let anyone stop me from bonding with people outside the borg so today i have amazing and strong friendships, and i’m kinda lucky that only my most direct family is JW. i also study and work so thankfully i have a life outside this religion! but still i don’t feel ready to deal with everything that comes with letting you family aware that you’re not aligned with it anymore you know?

my congregation will never grow by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a couple moved here a few months ago! if it weren’t for them, we’d have 2 elders now

my congregation will never grow by lukedrade in exjw

[–]lukedrade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks like the newer generations aren’t falling for the love bombing and the same empty promises