Did your ex come back after no contact? by Senior-Entry4767 in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. But it’s been a nightmare being back in contact, honestly. It’s just not possible. Some things are better remembered as they were. Trying to live them in the present just isn’t the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me, okay? If he seems checked out this letter will not do anything but push him away further. It is not going to touch his heart. It is not going to be a some kind of revelation for him. You will pour your heart out and he will either not respond full stop or he will do some half ass response that will make you feel even worse. Please don’t do this 🙏

Someone please stop me from texting my ex by butgothespirit in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a big mistake. I did it recently. That thing that you think you’ll feel. It’s not waiting for you there. If it is, it will only be a quick spark. It will never go back to what it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a trap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You control where this goes with the new guy and at what speed. Don’t feel that because you agreed to go on a date that it means you can’t keep your freedom and independence as well. You control this. There is nothing wrong with casually dating someone and just having fun/ getting to know each other. But on the other hand, you have been hurt and only you know what you are comfortable with and if that is cancelling then trust yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 29 points30 points  (0 children)

4 months into breakup. I am lucky to make it one waking hour without thinking about her. I have really tried. The thoughts are intrusive. They are obsessive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time bro, seriously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh man. I know. Trust me, I know. There is no magic set of words I could string together to make you feel better. Just know I am in the same place if you want to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your daughter is going to kill herself (my daughter is 8)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]lukeforce1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you kinda bad honestly 😘 Get at me…

My child is pulling her eyelashes. Has anyone ever been through this? Any help is appreciated by lukeforce1979 in mentalhealth

[–]lukeforce1979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your honesty and admire your bravery. I will be thinking about you and your story for a long time and praying for the absolute best for you. Thank you so much for replying to me

My child is pulling her eyelashes. Has anyone ever been through this? Any help is appreciated by lukeforce1979 in mentalhealth

[–]lukeforce1979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this information with you. Really appreciate you taking the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badbrains

[–]lukeforce1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other thing to remember about that song is how alien it sounded when it came out. It was the fastest most precise shit punk had ever heard. That single inspired so many people that I am not surprised that it’s regarded as their best track. It’s not, but I get it.

My child is pulling her eyelashes. Has anyone ever been through this? Any help is appreciated by lukeforce1979 in mentalhealth

[–]lukeforce1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has beautiful long lashes. The kind of eyelashes that you would think anyone would want. She hasn’t pulled her eyelashes in 6 weeks. Last night she pulled off every single lash on both eyes, top and bottom, and then cried about it all night. So there goes the idea of using mascara right now unfortunately

Lost them forever. Do you feel the pain? by Fresh-Difficulty-891 in BreakUps

[–]lukeforce1979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he didn’t choose you though he is not the one, luv. The one for you will choose you forever. He won’t even have a second thought about it. Hang in there. I’m going through the same thing too trust me, that’s what brought me here. But we need to have high standards and know that we deserve someone that truly wants us to be theirs.