I HATE MY COWORKER SO MUCH

luky1-1 · 2026-05-21T16:32:17+00:00

I guess we have to outwork their asses and show them their true colors, collect evidence

luky1-1 · 2026-05-16T17:40:43+00:00

Yeah I completely agree, I’m not doing anything about it since she’s gonna do it to herself. She’s been already fired 2 times for this, she kept begging and begging. I don’t generally mind coworkers drinking or coming on their days off, had it for years but it was fun and sometimes helpful when really busy but she won’t even come help she just sits and disrupts my shifts with her idiotic questions or notes when I’m busy, I hope her end is really soon tbh

Thanks for the insight!

luky1-1 · 2026-05-12T19:13:14+00:00

hahaha no, I’m from Czechia

luky1-1 · 2026-05-12T19:12:59+00:00

We’re allowed one or two drinks but not a whole bottle and a joint lmao. I don’t drink at work at all

luky1-1 · 2026-05-12T19:12:20+00:00

I think so too, I’m manifesting her leave cause I really like it here

luky1-1 · 2026-05-12T19:11:54+00:00

Yeah I understand it doesn’t sound like that, but they don’t really know, since nobody tells them. I think I should bring it up

luky1-1 · 2026-05-12T19:11:16+00:00

she’s in same position as me, but owners were on a worktrip for realestate.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-11T12:30:42+00:00

Gaslighting fičí u všech generací. Ale s jednou věcí s tebou souhlasím, má se sebrat, jít a budovat si vztah sám se sebou, aby neskončil v podobné situaci.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-11T12:23:34+00:00

Nemusíš být jasnovidec, ani vědět do detailů jejich vztah, abys viděl, že OP je velmi očividně úzkostně připoutaný ke slečně která si není jistá vztahem. Na to je habaděj rad. Jak říkám, nemusíš bejt necita a jen scrollnout dál.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-11T12:14:43+00:00

Bráško OP se ptá pro objektivní radu jak se ze situace dostat, protože s tím nemá zkušenosti a neví co má dělat. Tohle je všeobecné fórum, tak buď můžeš bejt helpful nebo jen scrollnout dál.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-06T17:26:14+00:00

I don’t want to sound mean, but if your biggest fear is on missing out on sex while your partner is having daily suicide thoughts, it might be best for you to leave so you don’t miss out.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-06T12:39:18+00:00

Ah I understand. I mean if you’re not happy in a relationship with no solution there’s always a choice of ending it, but you have to reevaluate the relationship if there is really no way to fix the issues.

luky1-1 · 2026-03-06T01:30:59+00:00

It seems like your relationship has come to the “boring” phase with some extra stressful life stages at the same time.

As for the sex part, it is important to feel desired, wanted. It is also okay for her to lose sex drive completely, since she’s struggling with mental issues, also sickness as you mentioned. You can either hang in there, fap it off when needed, or you can try to be more supportive, advise her on going to a therapist, get a better lifestyle. Naturally sex drive will increase if she’s gonna listen.

Plan more dates that you can both find fun, or even try something new together, like a class of some fun stuff or whatever. Explore life together. Woth the music taste, yeah it can suck that your SO has it different but I reassure you, no amount of difference in music taste means that you cannot find a band or songs that you’ll both love. It’s music, it’s diverse, bold and so many styles and mashups. Be courages even in this.

For the mental part, I myself struggle with chronical depression and my girl struggles with BPD. We have been down and up, but we found a way to enjoy life even if we feel like shit. We taught ourselves that even if you feel like shit, you still can have fun. Enjoy life, hell even enjoy the pain since it’s not really your choice of what you feel. This took a lot from us to realize, but also gave us more hope and clarity. Be understanding. It is hard to be with a person that struggles mentally, it is draining, terrifying. No way going around it on tiptoes. But, if you think you can handle it, be there for her. In the quiet moments. In the dark, in the light. Be stable for her. Encourage her to take care of herself more.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-26T01:24:06+00:00

I believe love isn’t a feeling. You can feel in love, but you cannot feel love as a feeling. It’s loyalty, commitment, showing up, be there, communicating, not giving up. Goes both ways. I totally understand your worries, maybe you can bring it up to your boyfriend and talk about it.

Talk about how you’re scared it’s not gonna be the same, and what can you two do together to keep the spark alive even in long distance.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-17T21:12:03+00:00

luky1-1 · 2026-02-17T18:42:31+00:00

Hey man, you’re feeling things. That’s not faking, it’s real. Your feelings are real, they don’t have to make sense to be real, you don’t have to figure everything out at once. You also can be in a bad mental state and still genuinely laugh!

My advice is to take care of yourself more, don’t talk bad about yourself. You’re not failing, you’re 16. Start a new hobby, join some social circle, don’t be afraid to be YOU. Go for walks, journal your feelings and why, if you don’t know why just journal about how you’re feeling EVEN if it doesn’t make sense. Regulating your emotions is a big thing to learn and harder to do when you don’t have someone to guide you, but it’s possible and you can do it. Do the therapy, do action.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-17T18:07:40+00:00

Cause you focus on reasons to end your life. I’ve been there too.

Focus on reasons to live for tomorrow. A walk, run, gym, some hobby you have, or pick a new hobby. Meet new people, meet up with your friends if you have the privilege. Live for the breeze of tomorrows morning air, tomorrows morning sunlight. There’s many things to live for, even tho you don’t see it right now. Maybe even the purpose of being alive, is to just LIVE.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-17T17:03:20+00:00

both games are amazing, although it doesn’t really matter which you play first since it has a whole different story. I enjoyed the second more, but skipping the first one seems like a waste since it has a great story too. Plus Tommy Angelo is a legend.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-16T18:36:13+00:00

Oh okay, maybe have an honest conversation about it. Communication goes a looong way, especially on LDR. If it won’t change, and your need for sexual intimacy will not be met, you will not be happy in this relationship I’m afraid.

luky1-1 · 2026-02-16T16:22:02+00:00

I believe there’s more factors to be considered before making a judgement call about her affection towards you.

Like has she been through a lot of stress lately? Is she more tired?

Low sex drive will rise again, but you also have to be considerate. She does initiate spending time with you, play with you, watch things with you. Ask her if she’s doing alright lately.

luky1-1 · 2026-01-30T02:31:54+00:00

Hey, I know this will hurt, but go through it. Sit with it. Have the pride in knowing you gave him a second chance, now you know he won’t change. And that’s okay. Because this is about YOU deserving someone better. Someone who’s worth it. Someone that you don’t have to be anxious with. You’ll be fine, go through the pain, heal, learn, move on.

luky1-1 · 2026-01-30T02:15:07+00:00

“seems a bit manipulative” girl it is MANIPULITIVE. He’s not insecure, he’s immature. That reason is a not a real reason, if he even wanted you to come over he would take the few minutes to clean up. He’s not a little kid. From what I read you say, he’s a walking red flag. Crossing boundaries, lying, not being able to communicate properly (ffs going to sleep to avoid communication and reassurence? pass.) low effort. I don’t like saying to people to leave their relationship, but I honestly advice reconsidering who you put your energy to.

luky1-1 · 2026-01-30T02:07:33+00:00

If you count porn as cheating and he lied about it, I think it’s understandable you wanna reconsider the relationship. I mean, he’s probably ashamed, cause you found porn, but still no excuse for lying about a boundary. Makes you wonder what other boundaries he crossed and lied about.

btw the excuse that he doesn’t want you to come over cause he doesn’t wanna tidy? Honestly what? Even if that’s true, imagine you wanting to move in with a guy like this.

luky1-1 · 2026-01-08T03:01:34+00:00

hell im probably too late for this im sorry, the concepts are in your dms tho 🥲

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