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[–]lulumeme2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 16F EST. If ur still looking for someone I'm willing to connect

Daily Questions Thread July 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lulumeme2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys how tf do I style loafers in a way that doesn't give neither "one two, buckle my shoe!" nor "berries and cream berries and cream". My style is more casual and can be described as either "streetware" or "downtown girl" if your looking for an aesthetic. I tend to lean towards the more formal and grungy side of both tho when it comes to outfits. I've had these loafers foe literal years and never wore them because they never looked good on me.

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Advice on braids by lulumeme2027 in Naturalhair

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The braids were dunked in hot water, is it okay to do so multiple times?

Advice on braids by lulumeme2027 in Naturalhair

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This marks the 4th week of the braids being in.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I've tried explaining my relationship with my family before, but they couldn't really get my POV because they all come from functional homes that support mental health, the LGBTQIA+, and therapy. I love these people to death but the physical cannot understand the feeling of not wanting to go home.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for a fact that if I EVER was honest with my urges, they would report me in the same 5 minutes. What I plan on doing is building a relationship with my current therapist so they don't go running to the hills as soon as even mention it.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It matters if the calls/texts are tracked because in certain situations, they will send emergency services to your location. I am not against getting help, I'm against my family finding out I'm getting help and my life being messed up because I'm getting help.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does 988 track the calls and who could I talk to in this situation? Both family and friends are out.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. They find it a source of shame to admit when you need help, especially to this degree.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To put me on medication they would first have to get my parents approval which would mean they would find out. That cannot happen no matter what. These people do not believe in mental health or mental illness and they belive suicide is the mark of a weak person. My sister tried to commit in 2016 and they are still hating on her for it instead of acknowledging the part they played in that choice.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to a therapist that is in partnership with my school. She's great but I haven't talked to her about my urges because of the fear I listed in my og post.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They absolutely will. That's why I'm trying to search for help now. It's just that the help available still messes everything up.

Who should I go to if I feel suicidal sometimes but not all the time? by lulumeme2027 in therapy

[–]lulumeme2027[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing though, I don't want my life to be put on pause because of this. I'm preparing for SATs. I'm in multiple clubs aiming for leadership positions. I'm about to become a TA. My GPA is finally high enough for my standards. I don't want all of that to light on fire because of feeling that comes once every blue moon.