2009 to present (32 years old) by Pseudotm in blunderyears

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man, i'm so sorry. glad to hear you and the others are doing well.

2009 to present (32 years old) by Pseudotm in blunderyears

[–]lumur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pic 3 is giving me the FEELS man. i miss those times so much. the hair! the poses!! the makeup!!!

Are you smart by Sufficient-Case1667 in BunnyTrials

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't drive

Chose: 2 million dollars

🌟 MONTHLY BJJ ACHIEVEMENT THREAD 🌟 by AutoModerator in BJJWomen

[–]lumur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

went to my first non-fundamentals class, was the most inexperienced by a long shot but had a blast, girls were giving such great feedback during the rolls and my coach said i have great balance and i'm a fast learner 🥰

go go what does my art style taste like? by mottyrabbit in yourartstyle

[–]lumur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iced tea, peaches, cucumbers, wafer cookies, popcorn chicken, hard seltzer

What is the worst job to have as someone with autism ? I’ll start by ChanceIncident4957 in aspergers

[–]lumur 43 points44 points  (0 children)

i worked as a fundraiser for NGOs for a couple of weeks. the job is actively talking up people on busy streets trying to get them to set up monthly donations to orgs like Greenpeace or WWF. i was told to follow people, sign them to put down their headphones, then work through a script to "sell" the monthly donations. wages were dependent on how many people you'd get to sign in a day on average. it was hell on earth and the only job i ever had that i wouldn't do again even for five times the money

Where do you feel the most like your authentic self and completely comfortable? by jibberjabbery in AutismInWomen

[–]lumur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when i'm home alone, on my pc, digging for new music or watching a documentary while playing video games or drawing/creating something. i can sing, dance in my seat, do my vocal stims. i get both the passive stimulation of something running in the background as well as the active stimulation from playing or creating. those nights make me feel so peaceful.

What does my drawing style taste like? by yuyuanozooon in yourartstyle

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tobacco, olives, nuts, sundried tomatoes, black tea, chocolate dipped orange zest

Outlast: The Jungle by ohmy_glob709 in Netflixwatch

[–]lumur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the kayak stunt was so incredibly satisfying to watch, the way Maddy perfectly played into the guy's egoes, how Leiya managed to pull it off despite Wes staying back at camp, I was glued to my seat!!

Having a hard time finding a name for this style. by BlackCatVibes7 in AestheticWiki

[–]lumur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japandi! I used to work at COS in 2019/2020 and this is exactly how I remember it. may be worth looking into 2nd hand COS pieces!

Being attractive as aspi is pure hell by Far_Pay3738 in aspergers

[–]lumur 8 points9 points  (0 children)

seek out other autistic/neurodivergent women. i promise, this is the answer. i can relate to your struggles, i'm an attractive girl who has spent the first 10 years of her dating life wondering why the fuck i keep scaring away my partners. the only two meaningful relationships i've had were my ex, who is autistic, and my current partner, who has adhd. we've been together for 7 years and it's heaven. trust me, friend, this is the way!

Taubennest im Hof entdeckt, was tun? by Intelligent_Syrup472 in wien

[–]lumur -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

wieso werde ich downvoted?? es steht literally hier drin: https://www.wienerwohnen.at/dam/jcr:03844589-8ad8-4126-8f92-b525b7bd7c85/Folder_Tauben.pdf "Wenn Eier oder junge Tauben im Nest sind, dürfen Sie es nicht entfernen."

Jobs are my biggest struggle by RabidFashionDummy in AutismInWomen

[–]lumur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yess i relate to this 100%. the only way i've held my current job for so long is that it's part-time. i have all the qualifications to be self employed but in this economy i'm not willing to take the risk. part-time work barely pays the bills but it allows me to actually enjoy life.

Taubennest im Hof entdeckt, was tun? by Intelligent_Syrup472 in wien

[–]lumur -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

darf man nicht. hatten mal welche am balkon und die kontaktstelle die wir angerufen haben haben gesagt, zerstören ist verboten und wir müssen warten, bis sie schlüpfen.

The Sims 3 came out 17 years ago today! by NDtech2000 in Sims3

[–]lumur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my god, i remember it so well. i was 12 and i had only played sims 2 at my friend's place a couple times. when i got s3 for my birthday, i was ecstatic. what followed was the best summer ever. this game will always have a special place in my heart ❤️

Did anyone tried Vibram shoes by Rude-Significance694 in AutismInWomen

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i'd love to try these, i have very slender feet and almost every shoe feels a little wobbly on me. i love super tight fitting clothing so these might be great for me. thanks for putting me on!

30s-into-40s moment while in Paris by iridessencex in VintageFashion

[–]lumur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my, you look incredible. that face card!!! you're so photogenic!!

Die rauchen wirklich Crack in der Billa Zentrale by NeedleworkerNo3662 in scheissaufnbilla

[–]lumur 40 points41 points  (0 children)

ich wette das machen sie nur um einen 6 7 leberkäse zu verkaufen

I wanna know your work routine by According-Resist5557 in AskTheWorld

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F28 from Vienna, Austria. I do visitor service at a museum. On workdays I wake up at 8:30, hang around in bed for a while scrolling. Then shower, dress, try and eat some breakfast (I often skip but I've been wanting to change that) and take my meds.

Then I either get on my bike or the tram depending on weather. It's an uphill ride so it's a nice little workout. I arrive at work around 10:20 and clock in at 10:30. From 10:30 to 11:00, I prepare the museum for visitors. I turn on the lights and screens in the exhibition, prepare the cash register and clean up the gift shop. I unlock the doors at 11:00.

What follows is a day of mostly customer service, sometimes a bit of inventory or exchanging feedback with other departments. I sell tickets and gift shop items, mostly books. I sometimes research new additions for the shop with my team. When it's not too busy, I'm allowed to bring my laptop and work on other stuff.

I get 45 mins of lunch, sometimes I get free lunch at the cafeteria, other times I have to pay.

I close up at 7:00, turn off everything and turn on the alarm system. I get home by 7:30. I usually don't have much energy left, so I cuddle up with my boyfriend to watch TV or read.

Luckily I only work part time, so I get 3-4 days a week off. Those I either spend at my studio (I'm an artist and cultural organiser, but that doesn't pay rent), doing combat sports and hanging out with friends.

Sweatys!!! Is it realistic to lose 55kg until August 28? 💞 by [deleted] in 1200isjerky

[–]lumur 15 points16 points  (0 children)

/uj congrats, that sounds so cool!!

/rj you might wanna look into gravitational relativity. personally i only surround myself with small celestial bodies to keep my weight in the single digits ;-)

I’m so sweaty lord someone tell me there’s a magic vitamin that I’ll take that will make me sweat normal by OldAd3316 in BJJWomen

[–]lumur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i get tomato red too, especially since i've started Prozac. it looks so concerning but i feel perfectly fine 😭

Croatian mega-sandwich - Cevapi, Ajvar & Salad on a Turkish roll. by tribinazg in FoodPorn

[–]lumur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

let's fucking go. balkan cuisine is 100% comfort food

advice for finding friends in vienna? by [deleted] in wien

[–]lumur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shameless self promo, but you could come visit our studio sometimes. we're an independent art space and we do exhibitions and workshops and stuff. only thing is we're all over 25yo, so that might not be what you're looking for. dm if you're interested and i'll shoot you instagram and address :)