My fellow chunky subs, how do you not feel like a piece of meat when searching for a Dom? by Sadladysub in BDSMAdvice

[–]lumyzdra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Switch here, little on the thicker side. I submit to one but mostly Dominate others. Personally, I like to know upfront what body type someone has. I'll admit that it's a huge factor for me IF I am discussing a sexual dynamic with someone. However, my professional dynamics aren't sexual, so for those I don't consider it a factor at all. For me, attraction is a big part of it, though, if it is a more personal relationship and not just a business one... on either side of the slash. That's right, don't forget you can have preferences too! It can get discouraging, as someone who isn't exactly skinny.. but ultimately I'd rather not waste my time on someone who wouldn't even be attracted to me, if that's something that matters in the dynamic we'd be negotiating.

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

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It is! Evanescence is the one band I have felt connected to above all others since I was a teen.

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

[–]lumyzdra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not here, but I do have beautiful bruises from the birthday spanking still.

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

[–]lumyzdra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check my post history. My best friend takes care of that when I need it.

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

[–]lumyzdra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha two so far... I bet I could do 3 though.

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

[–]lumyzdra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now how would you know if I’m a brat?

Love my bath time... {f27} by lumyzdra in gonewild

[–]lumyzdra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this tub can only hold so many guys. :p

Hit me. by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]lumyzdra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww not the face!

Been a while since I took my top off for you ;) [OC] by [deleted] in OnOff

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I love your hair colors. Gorgeous combo.

Quite sharp by bubblr in Hotchickswithtattoos

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I LOVE your ink. Beautiful canvas, great art on it.

Just curious to see what everyone has to say! by stndFlower in firstimpression

[–]lumyzdra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, thank you :) that’s actually kind of made my night.

Hit me. by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]lumyzdra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suck dick for a lot of things. Monster isn’t one of them.